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TMI…Thursday?

Hello my friends!

Just felt like posting today, but didn’t have much to say…so even though it is a couple of days late, here are my answers to the TMI Tuesday prompt.

Thank you for reading!  Hoping to get back to sexy stuff soon.

Love, nora

  1. If each of your index fingers could spew a liquid for the rest of your life, what liquid(s) would it be.

First off, if this could actually be achieved it would be amazing!!! While I would really want a third index finger that could spew cold, fresh water, I have to say that I would want one index finger to spew coffee and the other to spew liquid coffee creamer.  I would never have to yearn for that perfect cup of coffee again…heaven!

  1. If you could talk to everyone in the world for 5 minutes, all at once, what would you say?

Wow, what an incredible, incomprehensible opportunity this would be!  So, I’m not going to actually type out 5 minutes worth of conversation, but in a nut shell, I would encourage people to work hard and love harder.  Much of our self-worth comes from the work we do, whatever that may be.  And, learning to love…well, that sometimes takes a lifetime, but is very fulfilling.  I would also encourage them to do things that they are afraid of once in a while.

  1. Would you rather not be able to eat for a week OR not be able to _____ for a month?

Yikes…not eating for a week….not a fast that I want to endure.  So, here it is: I would rather not be able to play on-line for a month, rather than not eat for a week.

  1. What exhilarates you?

Roller coasters, sexy eye contact with an attractive stranger, the feeling of cold water enveloping me when I jump into a pool or lake, karaoke at a large club, the first night teaching in a new semester, being at the zoo and seeing the large cats (they are so sexy and powerful!), and lots more… when I am happy, I sure love life.

  1. What is the best perk of your job? What is the best perk you have ever had at any job?

I work in two professions, both of which have many perks.  First, my favorite part of working in mental health is helping others to feel heard.  There is so much loneliness in this world.  If I can make one person feel heard, truly heard and connect with them, even if just for a little while, I feel a great sense of self-fulfillment.  As a professor, the best perk of my job is being around young people.  Don’t get me wrong, I love working with older students as well…but being in college was an amazing period in my life, and now, getting to be a part of their college experience…well, it’s thrilling at times!  Another perk is the college campus…most of them are beautiful and serene, wonderful work environment.

Bonus:  Just how naughty are you?

Well, I am naughty nora after all 😊  Not quite sure how to answer this as my naughtiness is almost “normal” to me.  Let’s put it this way… I very much enjoy pleasuring myself (at least once per day), writing naughty spanking stories, and experimenting with new toys in the bedroom.  I like leaving the house without panties and if I am wearing an anal plug…even better 😊.

I think this question would have been more interesting had it been presented as, “What is the naughtiest thing you have ever done?”…a question for any of my readers who want to play along!!!

Thank you for sticking with me, all!

Happy reading and writing 😊

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Emerging from the ashes…

A few weeks ago, I didn’t think that I could make it through this.  Finding out about my husband’s (continued) affair felt like it was killing me.  If you need the dirty details, visit my previous post here.  I was suffering anxiety attacks, a severe rosacea break out, drinking too much, and my moods changed with alarming speed.  I didn’t know who to talk to, so I found a therapist (funny to me…psychologist going to see a therapist).  My husband found a therapist as well.

Fast forward to today…I’ve been privy to all the details for about 2 months…and, I think I am making it through this.  I have more control over my moods and talking to my therapist really helps.  My husband and I having been talking, A LOT.  We are both gaining insight as to what happened, why, etc.  He fully takes all of the blame (as he should!) and is sincerely apologetic.  I am hopeful we will make it through this.

But, in the back of my mind…I can’t help but wonder sometimes.  What would it be like to completely rip my life apart and choose to divorce my husband?  Awful, no doubt about it.  But after the dust settled…would I want to look for love again?  Would there be someone out there who would love me and only me?  Don’t get me wrong…I have no misconceptions about the grass being greener elsewhere.  But because of his own actions, my husband has set the bar pretty low for the next guy.  Only, that’s really not true.  Despite everything, he is still my best friend, my partner, the one who has stood next to me through all of life’s trials, and the one who is desperately trying to fix this.

I will go on, one foot in front of the other.  I wish that I could erase everything we’ve been through and go back to the happiness I felt when we were submerged in our D/s dynamic.  Those times were so thrilling and fulfilling…it has left a big empty space in my sexual being.  I wonder if we will get back to that place someday.

I hope you all are well 🙂 I try to keep up on your blogs, but it’s been a rough few months so please forgive me if I haven’t been commenting as much.

Take good care,

nora