Daddy and I do not have “real” children, just the four-legged, furry kind. We have tons of privacy on our property, can walk around nude in our home 24/7, and can incorporate play into regular domestic tasks to spice up the mundane (Daddy loves for me to be nude but for an apron while cleaning).
After intense sexual play with my husband, I have experienced that “drop” on a few occasions. This has been confusing at times…after all, we just spent the last few hours engaged in incredibly hot sexual activity…so why I am a feeling so down after? Science explains it best.
For whatever reason, this particular discussion prompt has sent me down the winding rabbit hole of self-reflection. What exactly is subspace? Have I experienced subspace? Does Daddy experience Domspace? Is my reaching subspace something Daddy and I should strive for?
Being available to satisfy another’s sexual needs 24/7 is a beautiful thing. Yes, it does require a lot of trust in your partner. He or she might desire you when you aren’t feeling your best, when you are sleeping, when you are in public, or during a time which might make you late.
As I read this prompt this morning, I realized that I would not be able to write this blog until I did a little bit of research first. For someone fairly new to the D/s scene, I had no idea what “edging” was, that you could “force” an orgasm, or that individuals could be conditioned to have an orgasm on command (still not quite sure I buy into this one).
Oh Daddy, You make me quiver like an arrow, Your prying fingers, coarse as granite stone, And a tongue like the cat o’ nine tails.
The only way to begin to address this prompt is with a very eloquent LOL (as in, laugh out loud) and a great big heck NO!!! I absolutely do not want a D/s dynamic without a sexual component. With that said, I realize these prompts are for individuals who are at various stages in their lives…