Tag: Loving BDSM

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 30

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 30

I find myself both proud to have faithfully completed my 30 Days of D/s journaling, yet a bit sad that this part of the journey has concluded. These daily prompts have enriched Daddy and I’s marriage by prompting us to have discussions that we otherwise may not have had. We’ve learned more about ourselves and each other by reflecting on assigned topics that opened our eyes to new (and exciting!) elements of D/s.

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 29

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 29

Back to labels, again… To start, we are first and foremost, husband and wife. As husband and wife, we decided to incorporate domestic discipline into our marriage in an attempt to smooth out some of the rough edges of our marriage. This has largely worked for us and we are both much more satisfied with our relationship, which has matured in many ways.

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 28

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 28

I’ve been aware of my kinky preferences since I was in my early teens. Seeing the bare bottom of a female being spanked has always turned me on. I remember that even younger than that, I would draw cartoons of spankings and I would read and re-read parts of books in which a spanking took place.

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 27

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 27

Daddy and I do not have “real” children, just the four-legged, furry kind. We have tons of privacy on our property, can walk around nude in our home 24/7, and can incorporate play into regular domestic tasks to spice up the mundane (Daddy loves for me to be nude but for an apron while cleaning).

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 26

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 26

Tasks and rituals are beginning to find their place within Daddy and I’s new dynamic (I suppose it’s not that new anymore as we near the six-month mark). In the beginning, when we began to incorporate domestic discipline into our marriage, it was mostly about the rules…always be respectful, obey immediately, and strive to please Daddy in all ways. If I broke the rules, I was disciplined.

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 25

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 25

Daddy and I are living this lifestyle 24/7. For us, what that means is that he is the head of our household, he has the final say, and that I am to obey him at all times. What this doesn’t mean is that he doesn’t care about my opinion or that I don’t make certain decisions for myself. We still talk about everything and sort out this life together, as we always have. But, what is different now, is that if we disagree, he will ultimately decide for us. And this is working beautifully!

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 24

Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 24

Due to circumstances in my own life (i.e. recent, tragic deaths of family members), when I read this prompt, all that goes through my frantic mind, is what if Daddy dies? That is something I struggle with a lot right now…every time he walks out the damn door to go to work, I think, what if this is the last time that I see him?