Kink & Tech

I remember being 17 or so the first time I was able to search for spanking images on-line.  Dial up internet and AOL...I was in HEAVEN!  Suddenly, the naughty scenes that had only ever existed in my mind, sprang to life on the computer screen before my greedy eyes.  I also remember learning to delete...

A new writer on scene…

Hello, my kinky friends~ I recently came across the blog of a Daddy Dom who has A LOT of wise things to say about dominance. While I described him as a new writer on scene in my title, it actually appears that he used to blog quite a bit, and is now returning. In any...

Leave the light on

Hello, darkness, my old friend... Okay, I admit...that is a dramatic start to this post...but it’s not too far off from how I am feeling.  I am spiraling, my friends.  Sinking into the dark abyss of depression.  I’m trying to hold on.  Daddy made a grab for me earlier, trying to cheer me up, trying...

Reflections on my younger self

I’ve been in a reflective mood lately, casting my thoughts to the past and to my journey in submission.  What I am about to share will hopefully make you laugh as you realize just what a nerdy girl I really am.  Picture this... a young nora, only five or six years old, wandering sleepy-eyed, filled...

Wrapped up in Gratitude

While we could debate the historical origins of Thanksgiving (let’s not!), what this day means to me is time with loved ones and a focus on all I am thankful for...which is A LOT. Sometimes, I look back on my life and wonder...how the heck did I get so lucky?  I was born into a...

Spanksgiving Fantasies #NSFW, 18+

I am a naughty girl.  You all know this...this is not news to you.  So, you won’t be surprised then if I share a very, very naughty fantasy with you.  This is one of those reoccurring fantasies... you know, the kind from the spank bank.  The type of fantasy that comes (cums?) to you on...

Processing difficult feelings

I need to write about something that falls in less of the “sexy” category and more in the “real life” category of D/s.  Often, writing is how I process my feelings so please bear with me as I try to understand my position on this.  Right now, I am just so angry!  Sighs.  Or, maybe...

Daddy & me

Okay...so another big revelation this week...  For the past couple of months, Daddy has been experiencing a physical health issue.  It is serious and it does prevent us from having penetrative sex at the moment, but it is also fixable.  He is working closely with his doctor, and it will require surgery.  But...he will be...

Dipping our toes in polyamory

Hello, my kinky friends, Hold on to your hats, because I am about to get deeply serious with you.  This is about as real as it gets. I was brought up with the same fairy tale fed to most people of my generation... boy meets girl, boy and girl fall in love, boy and girl...

Blowing you a thank you kiss!

Hello, my dear readers! An email arrived in my inbox today, quite unexpectedly.  If you will remember, back in October I found myself entered in the Kinkly Sex Blogging Superhero contest.  This was quite a surprise to me, and I was pleased to find myself considered for the Top 100 list.  While I initially made...