Reflections on my younger self

I’ve been in a reflective mood lately, casting my thoughts to the past and to my journey in submission.  What I am about to share will hopefully make you laugh as you realize just what a nerdy girl I really am.  Picture this... a young nora, only five or six years old, wandering sleepy-eyed, filled...

Handing over control

My friend Thomas, a dominant man with an interest in spanking, recently suggested that I self-reflect and write a post on why I long to hand over control of myself to another person.  What is it about being controlled that does it for me?  Why do I crave structure, rules, and boundaries?  And why do...

Where o’ where does my submission go?

Submission does not always come easy to me (giggles a little…you didn’t think I was well-behaved all the time, did you my kinky friends?).  At times, my submission fits like a well-worn glove.  The “Yes, Daddy’s” and “Yes, Sir’s” just flow off my tongue, and you’d think obedience was my first language.  Lately though, I’ve...

Turn down service

The BEST thing happened Friday night! I was giving myself a good sugar scrub in the tub (yes…of course, I was naked…but that’s not the best part 😉 ) when Daddy came in to put his pajamas on.  I saw his face light up when he noticed that his pajamas were neatly folded and waiting...

Hurtling into subspace

The question—what sorts of things create a climate where you feel submissive?—was posed to me recently, and I’ve spent much time considering my answer.  What exactly is it that sends me hurtling into subspace and sends tingles to all the right places? There are some obvious answers and some that are more complex.  Let’s begin...

Up, off my knees

Hello, my dear readers, I am sure that most of you know the bitter pain of heart break, so you might empathize with where I find myself now.  Daddy and I are on solid ground, of that you can always be sure.  But my love affair, my potential D/s dynamic with two people that I...

Warrior Princess

Hello my WordPress friends! As of late, I have been on a journey of discovery, healing, and self-improvement.  What has aided me largely in this process (besides my incredible support team…you know who you are!) is a book I am reading titled, “A Simple Process to Transform Confusion into Clarity and Pain into Peace: The...

The World’s a Better Place

Good day, my WordPress friends! There is a song in my heart this morning and I cannot resist the urge to thank those who put it there.  As of late, this girl has been re-discovering her sparkle and is experiencing a lightness in her heart where darkness once reigned.  I feel so happy, so cherished,...

Patience

I shake my head and laugh at myself a bit, when I remember how I used to think that I was a patient person.  I realize now that I had no idea what the meaning of patience was and how it would come to define my journey.  Before this trial, this test, I would have...

Bring back the fire in her eyes

As I lay awake in bed, thoughts spinning out of control in my mind, a coyote at the back of the property began to call. This beautiful creature hurled her piercing cries at the morning sky, and in my mind, I said to her, “I hear you, my friend.” Sometimes I try to do too...