My Fantasy Life… (#NSFW, 18+)

The other day in therapy, my therapist asked me to describe my fantasy life.  I will be honest and say that I LOVE my life with Daddy.  He is my person, my best friend, my life partner.  I cannot imagine my life without him so in some sense, I am already living my fantasy life…. I’m married to my best friend, we have a beautiful home, fluffy puppies as companions, good jobs… I have many blessings in my life, which also include my Dynamic with Sir. 

And sometimes…it is fun to fantasize.  As I am sure you (my kinky friends) can imagine, my fantasy life includes LOTS of discipline and spanking.  In my fantasy world, I live with a very Alpha man.  He is highly intelligent, successful, and works from home.  We have a beautiful house on a high cliff in Maine, overlooking the sea (I know how to dream big 😊).  I also work from home part-time but have quite a bit of time to serve my dominant man and care for him and our home.  Oh, and I have a turret room facing the sea, set up as an art room (I dream really big 😊).

I feel a bit embarrassed to admit that I fantasize about doing his laundry.  Being his dominant self, he often dresses me in nothing but one of his button-down shirts and skimpy panties and requires me to keep the shirt unbuttoned for his viewing pleasure.  I imagine him finding me in the laundry room, critiquing the way I am ironing his clothes.  He tucks me under his strong arm, lowers my panties, and spanks my bottom cherry red for my carelessness with his shirts.  After, he kisses me on the forehead and tells me to leave my panties down around my thighs until I am finished ironing.  He will be back to double-check my work on his next break.

In another fantasy, I am serving him his afternoon coffee.  He is on a zoom call, so I am careful to keep quiet and stay off the screen.  As I start to leave, he snaps his fingers and points, indicating that I am to crawl under his desk.  He keeps a fluffy bed there for me (okay yes, it’s a dog bed…but I’m not referring to any pet play here- not my thing) and often has me lay there, massaging his feet during his meetings.  I take my place under his desk, carefully rolling down his socks and removing them, and massage his feet extensively.  This brings me an enormous amount of pleasure…the privilege of doing this for him.  When I am done, I kiss the top of each foot lightly, expressing my love to him.  Suddenly, I hear him snap his fingers again.  He has unzipped his pants and I see his cock is hard.  I know what to do from there.  I cradle his balls in my mouth gently.  I am careful to keep my head beneath the desk.  I worship his cock, running my tongue lightly from his balls to the tip of his head.  Soon, I hear his laptop close.  He sits back and allows me to take him in my mouth fully.  He hands are in my hair now, controlling my movements, and soon he cums.  I swallow, licking him clean, smiling up at him.  He tells me that I am his good girl and that I may nap at his feet during his next meeting.  From his desk drawer, he removes a collar and gold chain.  He attaches the collar to my neck and secures my chain to his desk.  He kisses me lightly on my lips.  I curl up at his feet with sheer bliss.

BLUSHING.

I can’t believe I shared all that with you!  I will say that I did not share all those details with my therapist…just the part about the dream house and dream Dom. 

Thank you for reading…and I would love to hear about your fantasy life 😊

XOXO,

nora     

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  1. My fantasy life would include a beautiful log cabin in the country with trees all around and of course a tall privacy fence surrounding the property. A second building for our dungeon and play room. Mo Ard Rígh would be a successful entrepreneur who worked from home, i would be His full time submissive house wife, i would be able to take care of and serve all of His needs. i would work from home also if i so chose. His main requirements would be for me to be nude and available to Him at all times including outside weather permitting of course, and to maintain O/our home. I would love to live somewhere like Colorado or Maryland. But i don’t know if that fantasy will ever come true.

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    1. Ooooh… I LOVE your fantasy, my friend! I thought about being a full-time submissive/housewife too, as I LOVE being a caretaker, but I also really like teaching and could see myself doing that part-time, without taking away too much time from my Dom. I’ve only been to Colorado once and it was beautiful. That would be a neat place to live. Thank you for playing along and sharing your fantasy life! XOXO

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    2. What you wrote here is quite the same as what I’d like too. While you may have meant this, since you didn’t say, I’d only add…… I’d like to be made available to Him at all times, and He uses me beyond what I think I’m capable of. Like when I get tired and hope he’s (nearly/almost) done, he wouldn’t care and keep going until he was happy and satisfied. Hugs! Marie

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  2. That is some hot stuff, a slavegirl fantasy, except for the panties. (You likely would not be allowed any.)
    It sounds as if your trials and tribulations have not beaten you down, nora. That makes me very happy.
    So patients tell therapists their fantasies. I knew I was in the wrong line of work…. =0)
    Have a wonderful holiday season.

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    1. Oh, Master Silkenlash… you made me laugh so hard with that last part. It was part of an exercise to describe my fantasy/dream life. But what she took from that was that I needed to be more involved with THIS part of my life and to connect with people with similar interests. And she was sooooo right! I’ve been writing for my blog more this week and feel better than I have in a long time. Hmmm…no panties, huh? I am sure that could be arranged 🙂 Happy holidays, my dear friend! XOXO

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  3. I am supremely fulfilled. Fantasies always spring out of what you don’t have, however. For one of my fantasies, check-out my post tomorrow, “Sensation Play” on my blog, please.

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  4. It’s a problem, fantasies.
    I think guys come in different degrees of dominant. And if you’re submissive, you fantasize about a 10. And most decent guys, even if they are very dominant, are scared to be 10s cause they are decent and 10s are very close to not being decent.
    Mine is like a 4. He’s very dominant but hasn’t really let his dominant run wild. Would love to see him do 6 or 7.

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    1. Smiles. Thank you for your comment, Submissive. I agree that men/people have varying degrees of dominance. I think that getting stuck on one’s fantasies, and letting it make you feel discontent can be a problem. I love my current life, but can also appreciate a good fantasy. In reality, lying under a cramped desk all day, rubbing a man’s feet…probably wouldn’t be that fun… but my submissive mind sure loves to romanticize it 🙂

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  5. I get spanked. My spankings hurt but I can handle them. They are unpleasant but measured.
    My fantasy is to be spanked until I am crying and screaming from the pain and can’t help myself, while he sternly lectures me on obedience, compliance, deference. He doesn’t stop for my crying but drags it on, leaving my butt on fire, promises more for anything less than total obedience. I’m out of breath and messy and can’t stop crying for a while.
    He’s kind then but He commands me to bend over and takes me from behind and then does figging.
    Then reminds me that he will bust my bottom again for anything he doesn’t like. And follows through, even several times a day. I get away with nothing without terrible, terrible spankings each time. That’s my fantasy. Really is that all that much to want?? 🙂

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    1. Hot damn! I think that is my fantasy now too. A great fantasy, my friend. But as we both know…spankings hurt! I doubt I could handle this kind of intensity…but I am sure I would never misbehave again if I were made to endure this! XOXO

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  6. That is the first time that I have read a fantasy that included wanting to do the laundry. One of my fantasy lives involves travelling around many countries and being spanked by lots of different Tops. Not to find out which one is best, but just to experience the individual style of play of each one of them and enjoy the differences. It would take a big lotto win to live that lifestyle, though.

    Prefectdt

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    1. One of my best spanking memories with my husband includes cleaning a mirror that was hanging in the house. Similar to my laundry fantasy, in this scenario, I was cleaning the mirror and he came up behind me. He critiqued my work, took my panties down, and spanked me. He then made me re-do the cleaning, and then spanked me again when he found another missed spot. This went on a few times and felt incredibly erotic to me 🙂

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    1. That is a good question, Simon. I’d have to say that I have a few tried and true fantasies (ones that have been with me for years), but new fantasies that enter my mind as well. For example…with the two fantasies I have shared here, I have been dreaming about the laundry fantasy for as long as I can remember. However, the under the desk fantasy is one that has been with me for only a couple of years. I would love to know the same about you… do you get new fantasies all the time?

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              1. Curious eh? I won’t go into too much detail, I will give you some clues… I think for me it’s about spontaneity and daring. Things like public or outdoors. So like in a pool at a hotel at night or perhaps in a clothing store changing room.
                Outside has it’s appeal as well which can cover a few scenario’s 😉

                Do you need any more? xoxox

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                  1. I haven’t thought about it – but perhaps yes. But maybe it’s also the thought that others may not be bale to see, but they know and that is likely to make bring emotions out in them, even if it’s anger…

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  7. I wonder if your therapist asks that question to all their clients, and how kinky some of the answers are. I think I’d like to be a fly on the wall there. I know it would be embarrassing, but were you tempted at all to tell your therapist more details about your naughty fantasy life? 🙂 ❤

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    1. Oh, Franz….I should have known you would ask a thoughtful question, requiring me to reveal a few more naughty details. So, yes. My therapist is kink friendly and she understands the lifestyle. She knows about Sir, how I am disciplined, and about my rules and so forth. She also understands that I am a spanko and that I have this blog. So…she’s heard most of it. All this came about because I was sharing with her about my recent bout with depression and she wanted me to identify parts of my life that make me the happiest. And… I cannot tell a lie… D/s and spanking make me happier than anything. It is a part of who I am and I need more of it in my life (at least, that is what she and I determined after our talk). I probably won’t tell many this yet, but she has encouraged me to write a book and combine my two loves (writing and submission/spanking). I am heavily considering this as it feels like a big (and fun) undertaking. Oh, and I know I deserve a spanking for not emailing you back yet… I promise to write soon! XOXO

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      1. I’m glad she is encouraging you to write a book. That sounds like an excellent idea to me. 🙂

        I didn’t answer your question about my fantasy life but, now that I think about it, I’ve long had a fantasy about seeing a therapist, and where I get up the courage to reveal my spanking fetish. What would she say, suggest or do? There are a variety of interesting possibilities, most of which would not likely happen or be ethical on her part. Fortunately, there are no bounds in fantasyland. XO

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        1. Mmmmm…. I can just imagine the possibilities (in fantasy land)! Spanking therapy can be very effective for naughty boys and girls…perhaps we might even schedule a joint session! XOXO

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      2. I’ve said before you/I are similar. I’ve thought about writing a book to combine “my real life with my amped up fantasy version,” into one. I actually want to do it, but can’t find the time at all. (I have the whole plot set out in my head. Lol!)

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        1. I hear you, Marie! I am going to have to be very disciplined in the new year to accomplish this task. We shall see. Hoping to make good headway before the new semester starts and I have students clamoring for my attention again 🙂

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  8. Your fantasy sounds like fun! I love fantasizing. I’m living my dream too. (Minus the divorce). But in another life…I’d have a big house in the suburbs with a white picket fence and a pair of beagles. I’d stay at home with my 4 kids. A vacation home at the beach (somewhere like Martha’s Vineyard). Id be married to a dominant man. He’d have some masculine career like company executive or a high military rank. He’d come home from work to a hot meal. He’d wake up from a blowjob from me every day. We’d have rough sex every night after the kids went to bed. And he’d spank me daily. Oh what a girl could dream of.

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  9. Oh dear nora, you are back! I am so glad, I wish you well with all health issues and magnificent fantasies! Speaking of fantasies and wishes, I must admit there are quite a few strict Santa spanking-fantasies flying around in this naughty girls mind right now…happy holidays from Norway! Xxo

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  10. What a hot story! I get the hesitation about sharing everything with the therapist, but once I stopped and went into full sharing mode I turned one of them into domina. All’s well that end’s well. I have such a deep fantasy about collar and leash too, and I share your feeling that just sitting quietly under the desk is about as hot as anything gets. That is a guaranteed door to sub space.

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    1. I am actually pretty open with my therapist. If the darkest details of my fantasy were pertinent to our session, I would share them with her. From what I have shared, she’s able to understand my need to lose control, which is the basic tenant of my fantasy life. LOL…and I’d rather not turn her into a domina! She’s much more useful to me as my therapist 🙂

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      1. I can tell, it is uncharted territory, but so far it has injected a level of humour into sessions, and perhaps more honesty. This Mistress is everything I ever dreamt of. It gets the best out of me. I like your words, the need to lose control. I never felt that applied but when another Domme ordered my lunch, just taking charge, I was immediately in her thrall. She said, “now what was that you said about not feeling submissive?”

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  11. I think I’m very lucky to live my near dream life, too. Our home has character, it’s small and yet it’s somehow comfy. Daddy works from home, from the bedroom, so we can take care of one another. I think the only thing I can want for is for SIr to live closer, so that I can spend more time with both of them. Maybe some kind of living arrangement so I can enjoy living in my submissive immersion, bottom of the pack and yet loved and valued at the same time. To serve both of them each day, in whatever way, would be heavenly xx

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    1. YES! I desire that sort of arrangement too. My Sir lives very far away from me, and so our relationship is mostly carried out on Zoom, phone, email, etc. In a perfect world, I could serve both of them daily 🙂

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  12. Oh man, I actually get to live my fantasies often. What I dream my Kitten is a willing partner to execute.
    Other fantasies come out as stories often inspired by an image off the net. Some may be things to try or situational things that can only be done in my mind. Exotic places, public fucks that neither one of us are brave enough to try, but some of those can become very special memories because I acted them out.
    I am a very lucky man.

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