Hello, my kinky friends! I found some of these questions intriguing, so I decided to play along with TMI Tuesday this week. I hope you enjoy reading 😊
Keeping things kinky,
nora
1. I struggle with:
I struggle with sub frenzy at times. Sub frenzy can be described as an overwhelming desire to experience and explore every kind of kink, as soon as possible, often to the point of neglecting all other concerns. When Sir has dominated me in a particularly profound or strict way, I often find myself craving more and more of his time and attention, wanting to go deeper and deeper into sub space. I want new experiences with him, faster and faster. While this is thrilling (for us both, I think), it sometimes interferes with my daily life as I am prone to wanting to complete more tasks for Sir (to continue getting those little hits of dopamine that accompany obeying him), than I am wanting to complete tasks that I should be getting done that day. Also, Sir and I have both noticed that after he has spanked me soundly, I am more likely to suggest doing things for him that we have not graduated to. Sir has learned this about me and recognizes the signs (and keeps me in check and adhering to boundaries). It is very important that we not engage in activities that I haven’t cleared with Daddy, as that is how I continue to earn and keep Daddy’s trust. If I am honest though, sub frenzy is a beautiful thing. I feel so good when I am in this state. Thankfully, Sir understands this about me and knows how to keep me safe from myself.
2. What do men like to talk about?
Ummm….boobs? I mean, I hear men talk work, cars, politics, TV shows, and travel quite a bit. But I am guessing what they really like to talk about are boobs and bottoms 😊
3. Do you eat food samples in grocery stores (consider pre-covid times)?
Yep, sure do! I always test the grapes. I despise bringing home a batch of sour grapes…so I test them out. This is the only food I do this with, by the way.
4. What don’t you have figured out?
I have not figured out my purpose in this life. Career wise, I have set myself up to help others, both through teaching and through therapy. I am married and committed to helping my husband lead a great life and that makes me feel proud. I try to be a good daughter. I have no children to carry on any sort of legacy. I am committed to being the best submissive that I can be to Sir. I am a fabulous dog mom (seriously…when I die, I want to come back as one of my dogs 😊). But… I’m not really sure what my purpose is. Perhaps I am over thinking it, but I feel like I haven’t quite discovered what I am passionate about yet…that I haven’t discovered that one thing that I will do that will have a profound impact on this world. So, that’s what I haven’t figured out just yet.
5. What would you wear for camouflage if you were hiding on a gingerbread house?
This question is what made me want to participate in TMI Tuesday this week! Such a FUN question😊. First of all, I love creating a well-decorated gingerbread house (though decorating my own body would be so much naughtier!). So, let’s see…how would I camouflage myself if I were hiding on a gingerbread house? First, there would be lots of yummy frosting, in decadent colors…sexy red, tasty green, warm white…covering my naughtiest of places. My makeup would include rainbow colors and sprinkles, my lips candy apple red.

I would paint my breasts in white frosting, covered in candy confetti, and possibly hanging tiny candy canes from my nipples (I would have to tease them until they were hard first). I would stick peppermint candies and gum drops to my bare derriere. Skittles would trail down my navel leading to my pleasure spot…. I’m sure no one would find me…
Hope you have a sweet tooth!
XOXO

What fun your last comment was on this one! I think the sub frenzy comment is so spot on, and is very much what I experience from time to time. Mistress teaches me to savour what we already have and be in the moment and not to ask for more…and that has been a great lesson.
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YES! I have learned to be so much better about this with Sir. Before my Dynamic with him, I was always asking for new experiences and trying to plan everything out. With Sir, I have learned to be patient and wait for new experiences. I occasionally bring things up, but I have realized that what he does is hears me out…and then sets it aside. I brought up something to him almost a year ago…and a few weeks ago he suddenly started implementing the idea. It was so exciting because it felt like HIS idea that he was subjecting me to (and by that time, it was). So many lessons learned with him 🙂
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HA! I seriously doubt you would need frosting, much less sprinkles. I certainly doubt that any kind of added flavor incentive would be required to get you a good all over licking. But diving in with a can of Redi-Whip in each hand would be joyous, indeed.
What an imagination you have, nora!
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Blushing. My goodness, Silkenlash… you certainly know how to bring color to a girl’s cheeks 🙂
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Thank you, I have it but never knew what to call it.
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Do you mean that you have sub frenzy sometimes, cincy? It is such a powerful feeling. Many people view sub frenzy as a potentially negative state to be in…as it can cause the sub to seek out experiences so quickly that it may be unsafe (if they don’t know their partner well, etc.). I am grateful to be with a person who understands about sub frenzy and doesn’t use it against me when I am not thinking as clearly as I normally am. Has sub frenzy generally been a positive experience for you?
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Yay! Now I have boobs with sprinkles to add to my conversation repertoire. Thank You😍
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LOL…see!!!! I knew men liked talking about boobs (and won’t your man friends enjoy hearing about boobs with sprinkles 🙂 ) XOXO
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Very positive experience for me. After my wife makes me go long periods of time without an orgasm, I become super submissive to her. I want her to dominant me and treat me as her submissive slave, order me to obey her in every way and punish me when I don’t, and force me to do things I didn’t think I would ever do.
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Yep, that pretty much sums it up for me too, my friend!😘
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I enjoyed that post, thank you. Hate to bust your bubble, but I don’t think that I have had a face to face conversation with anyone about boobs for more than five years. I do talk about bottoms though, usually when someone is hitting mine with something. 🙂
Prefectdt
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Only five years ago, huh? Smiles. I imagine these conversations were more frequent when you were a younger lad. And talking about bottoms is more fun anyhow 🙂
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Yep, I think that most lads get over that phase when they are about 25 or 26. The subject does still come up now and then, between guys, but it doesn’t seem to be that often.
Prefectdt
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I smiled when I read this. I think that when women are younger, they are more focused on getting married, babies, buying houses. But now, my girlfriends and I discuss sex WAY more than we ever did. These differences between men and women are interesting 🙂
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I love the great thought you put into adding yourself to a gingerbread house 🙂
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Thank you😘❤🍬
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The treats featured in these photos are very appetizing. But, unfortunately, it is simply impossible not to notice them. So, using it as a disguise is unlikely to succeed.😀
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You make an excellent point, Mark! But it was a fun idea 🙂 XOXO
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It’s hard to argue with you, great idea!
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Dear nora, interesting (and funny) read! Made me wonder — do you ever feel the other way? As in moving away from wanting (needing?) more and more kink experinces? Do you think (or have experienced) it is possible to lose ones desires for kinky play? Kind regards, air kisses, and sprinkles, Scandi
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Hi Scandi! This is a GREAT question. So, I personally have not reached that point yet, even with everything that I have going on in my life right now (with my husband’s health). But I do know that this happens to people, and it will likely happen to me as well at some point. There are probably many reasons for this… loss of sex drive (menopause is right around the corner for me), chronic stress, chronic pain, health issues, boredom or complacency with one’s partner, etc. For me, much of this kinky stuff is in my mind. My thoughts are never far from kink…but then again, I have only been in the lifestyle for about five years (though I am a life long spanko 🙂 ). Anyhow…. Excellent question!!! XOXO
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After reading your description of how you’d decorate yourself as a ginger bread house, I called to make an appointment with my dentist. I’ll have cavities galore after enjoying you.
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HA! This comment gave me a great laugh and the best smile, my friend. Thank you ❤
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I loved ALL of this. Favorite line was about things you had not “graduated to.” : )
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Smiles at you. Thank you, Thomas! I miss our chats 🙂
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Even before you start reading this post, but only when you see the first photo, you already think: how appetizing it is!
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LOL…agreed, Mary! 🙂 XOXO
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On point #2 I find your perception to be remarkably accurate. Men around here in central Texas talk about the 8 point bucks they ( supposedly) killed and then delightful feminine body parts such as bottoms ( my personal favorite) and breasts.
You have made an impact on many ppl here who follow your blog. While that may not be as profound as you might like, it’s a great start!
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Smiles. I’d say it is definitely more “old school” to discuss female body parts, and I am old school. I know today the kids are taught that to discuss boobs and bottoms is to objectify women. Well, I can promise you that my girlfriends and I objective men all the time, wondering how nice a “package” they might have. Thank you for the supportive comment, my friend. If I have made an impact on others, or normalized their kinks for them in any way, I think I am doing a good thing here 🙂
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