I remember being 17 or so the first time I was able to search for spanking images on-line. Dial up internet and AOL…I was in HEAVEN! Suddenly, the naughty scenes that had only ever existed in my mind, sprang to life on the computer screen before my greedy eyes. I also remember learning to delete the search history so mom wouldn’t suspect anything. LOL. I can still vividly remember how aroused I became that first time, seeing those spanking images on the screen…and that is when I learned to masturbate (I’d had sex and had climaxed, but didn’t realize I could have that feeling on my own accord). I didn’t quite know what I was doing or why, but I remember grinding myself on a throw pillow to ecstasy. What a revelation it was that I could do that to myself! Damn that is a good memory…to be young again and just learning my body 😊
Recently, I was discussing my submission with a new friend (hello, Silkenlash!). He was sharing a bit about himself and various times in his life when he’d had to live without M/s in his life. Thinking about this made me incredibly grateful for the internet! In this day and age, meeting like-minded people who share your kink is much easier than the days of old. Prior to the advent of the internet, you met people the old-fashioned way (in a bar 😉) and hoped they weren’t vanilla. Finding a partner in this life is hard enough, but technology has made it a bit easier to connect with people who share your sexual interests.
This also had me reflecting… could I ever be satisfied without some form of D/s in my life? Probably not. I got really lucky that Daddy has been so open to the D/s lifestyle. Of course, I did vet him properly on our first overnight together way back when. I remember telling him how I liked to be spanked and how he took me over his knee that night! While Daddy has always maintained he is a boob man (thank goodness I am blessed in that department), he’s paid plenty of attention to my bottom ever since.
Of course, technology also led me to my D/s dynamic with Sir. In fact, I met Sir in the same spanking chatroom that I explored in my 20s. When Daddy gave me permission to start looking for a Dom, I remembered that chatroom and signed up for a free account. On my second visit there, I met Sir and the rest is history. Sir and I met one year ago this month. With the help of instant messaging, email, picture messaging, and the tele, we have a very real and vibrant D/s Dynamic. We are two people on opposite sides of the country who came together, and can be together, via technology.
I guess the sum of this post is this… thank the heavens for the internet! Seriously, I wish I could track down the guy that invented it and give him a big ol’ smooch on his kisser. As an intensely sexual being, I am incredibly grateful that technology allows me to connect with all of you kinky folks in this way and to share my naughty stories and adventures with you. I am also grateful for the friends I have made in this space and for the Dynamic that I share with Sir.
Thank the stars for technology!
Keeping it kinky,