Tall, dark, handsome stranger…

There are many girls who dream of tall, dark, handsome strangers.  Flowers, fancy restaurants, pretty words of affection…  Those things are nice, but this girl’s fantasies are so much darker.  It may seem silly, but the video below (a clip and song from the movie version, 2004) is one I always come back to.  Appease me…and give it a try… (and trust me, the shot of Emily Rossum in lingerie toward the end is totally worth it).

I imagine myself like her…still innocent, dressed in delicate lingerie… being led astray by the tall, handsome stranger.  He takes me to his secret liar, where his intentions are quite clear…to make me his.  He will accept nothing less than total authority over my body, influence over my mind, and imprinting his special brand upon my heart.  He will strip away all my defenses until I am putty in his hands, bending to his will.  In some ways, he will break me, and build me back up, stronger than before and more resilient.  Pain and pleasure, intertwined, used to control me.

Well, damn…it’s getting hot in here…..

Happy Friday, my kinky friends!



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  1. Yes, it *is* getting hot in here. I hadn’t seen that movie or the video. Nice one, nora. I like the music, and the actress does look very innocent and beautiful. What guy wouldn’t want to take her to his secret lair? 🙂

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    1. Hi Franz! I am so glad you tried this out. I imagined that many would see it was from Phantom and be unwilling to give it a go. I find it amusing that I perceive a D/s overtone in the first part of the movie, while he is trying to woo her….a real power exchange. If you didn’t know this, I am a huge fan of musicals. Again, thank you for watching this❤

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      1. Though I couldn’t make a lifestyle out of it, I do find the idea of power exchange and the dark side of kink can be exciting. I don’t know much about the “Phantom” story, but I take it your perceptions of D/s overtones were shaped by your own desires? I should check it out when I have the time. Seems wooing, stalking, capturing and controlling is typically the man’s role, which I like to imagine, but flipping genders there is also intriguing.

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  2. I dreamed of both. Fancy dinners at nice restaurants, pretty flowers, nice bottles of wine, but also of chains and whips and all those delicious dark things. But right now since my baby is a week old today. I dream of sleep.

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  3. Phantom is my favorite!!!! I’ve seen all the versions and he still makes me swoon. That scene where he takes her to underground lair, yeah I’ve wished I was her lol. Tall, dark, handsome and mysterious, yes! I wouldn’t mind the finer things on the outside but home I want it hard, and dirty, to feel controlled in only the best way, for his presence to make me feel meek yet strong because I’m his.

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