When I first began my D/s journey with Sir (formerly known as Mr. Intriguing), I was not allowed to write about our dynamic on my blog. I think this was a good decision as it gave Daddy time to get used to Sir’s presence in my life. I think it also helped Sir to feel more comfortable with me posting about his and I’s interactions. After all, he didn’t know me from Adam…so I understand his hesitancy to allow his submissive to just put it all out there on-line (until he learned to trust me). At this point, while I am still required to show any posts about my D/s dynamic to both Daddy and Sir in advance, I am ready to bring you all up to speed on the current state of our Dynamic.
Sir and I have been exploring this D/s dynamic since the first of the year. Our dynamic is 24/7, which means that I am always bound to the Rules of our dynamic. I have a list of Rules that we have negotiated together, and that list has grown considerably since January. Sir and I agree that negotiating new Rules, and the back and forth that ensues between us during those conversations, is a good deal of fun for both of us. I also want to mention that I am very grateful that he is not interested in giving me arbitrary or pointless Rules. All of Sir’s Rules are designed to improve or protect my health (physical, mental, emotional), or enhance our Dynamic in some way. I will tell you this…Sir is BIG on accountability.
The Rules that Sir and I have negotiated are organized by: Reinforcing Dynamic & Protocols, Health & Wellness, Safety, and Formal Assignments.
Reinforcing Dynamic & Protocols
When I wake up, I will say in my mind, “Submission and Obedience means following my Rules.”
Immediately self-report any infractions of my Rules to Sir.
Bring paddle to morning chat sessions for on-the spot correction.
Wear punishment clothes for scheduled discipline.
No self-spanking for pleasure.
After completing a task for Sir, I must say in my mind, “I have just been Dominated by Sir.”
Capitalize certain words to reinforce our dynamic, such as “Rules, Dominant, Dynamic Spanking.”
My name is to be un-capitalized to reinforce my submissive status to Sir. I am nora.
Heath & Wellness
45-minute workouts, 5 times per week.
Sleep hygiene: Refrain from checking phone after being tucked into bed by Daddy.
Sleep hygiene: Remain in bed resting until 5:00 am even if unable to fall back asleep (or, if I’ve had a minimum of 7 hours sleep).
Clean earring studs once per week (I have four studs in each ear to put this Rule into context).
Take vitamins every day.
Clothes must be hung up or in hamper by noon each day.
Bills must be paid on-time.
No texting and driving (permission to check texts from Daddy at stop lights).
No driving after consuming more than one alcoholic beverage.
Email Sir my To-Do list each morning. At end of day email status of completion (extensions must be requested by 4:30pm EST).
Email Sir after each workout (Ex. Workout 1 of 5 Complete). Provide FitBit intensity statistics.
Read and provide write-ups on topic of Sir’s choice by end of day Saturday.
Listen to song of Sir’s choice on Thursdays and provide feedback.
So, those are my Rules, my friends! Between Daddy and Sir, I am quite the well-behaved girl these days. Of course, I do mess up or slack off sometimes…and when this happens I will assure you that my Sir is quite STRICT with me. While he is very fair and always hears me out, if I misbehave there are always consequences. Sir’s consequences typically include a Spanking, corner time (have you ever held a quarter to the wall with your nose?), and writing lines and/or reflections in my journal. However, Daddy has also granted his approval for Sir to use Icy Hot and/or ginger root (figging) should Sir deem this sort of Discipline necessary. So far, I have managed to avoid the ginger! I sure hope to keep it that way…
I hope this gives you a better idea of how my on-line Dynamic works! I’ve been working very hard to be a good girl these days 😊
Keeping it kinky!