Mr. Intriguing is back!

Hello, my kinky friends,

If you have been following my journey, you know that I have been keeping busy Dom shopping (as well as fulfilling my duties to Daddy, of course)!  Yes, you heard me right.  Naughty nora is scouring the web in search of an on-line Dominant willing to help her explore her submission.  After a long talk about needs versus wants, Daddy agreed that it was essential to my well-being to experience a D/s dynamic with an experienced Dom.  The fact that he trusts me and loves me enough to want this for me…continues to blow my mind.  I love you, Daddy!

In one of my previous posts, I relayed some of my experiences with various Doms that I’ve met on my journey so far.  Out of respect, I am choosing not to share some of the crazier, odd balls stories…but believe me, there are some.  There were also some total poser Doms, like the one guy who told me that I was a “bad sub” because I very politely told him that I wasn’t interested (rolling my eyes…thank goodness for the “delete” button).  But generally, my experiences in seeking a Dom have been very positive and I “met” some very nice people.

You may remember from a few posts back that I met someone in a spanking chatroom who really piqued my interest.  He was smart, courteous, funny, and demonstrated an excellent understanding of the English language (yes, this really is a thing for me!).  But, right after we connected…he was off on a planned vacation with his family.  While he was away, I found myself missing his emails. I am going to start referring to him as Mr. Intriguing.

Well, Mr. Intriguing is back from vacation and our email correspondence has really taken off.  I am also discovering that he is educated, well-read, successful in his career, a family man, loves dogs, and has a very strong interest in spanking as discipline.  Visualize for just a moment the sound of boxes being checked off a list….check, check, check, check, check….. 😊

But, I am starting to wonder if he is dominant “enough”.  I’m not even sure what that means yet, but… I know that I want a dynamic with someone who is firm with me, someone who won’t let me talk circles around him.  While it is important to me that he is caring and affectionate, I also want someone who will be strict with me and push me to do better.  With this in mind, I began asking him questions about what he wanted from a potential on-line dynamic.  This led to a very stimulating conversation where he revealed to me that being a disciplinarian to an intelligent woman made him feel very powerful.  POWERFUL.  How yummy is that!?!?!

And, in another email he wrote the following:

“One thing that I am considering asking of you is for you to read one article or blog post that I select for you every other day. I would look for pieces that I feel have some insight into something important in the world. Yes, there would be times when this is proselytizing some political views of mine, but perhaps you might benefit from it. I would expect you to offer some comments upon the pieces. Do you feel like I am skipping ahead, being presumptuous to raise this thought so early in our acquaintanceship? (I have not yet stepped forward to a stage of prescribing some consequence to hold you accountable.) But perhaps this would be a step towards us knowing each other better.  I would like you to consider this, nora.”

Well, hot damn! 

Okay, I know what some of you are thinking… that this doesn’t sound very sexy…  But for this girl, this is SEXY as hell!  He wants to give me assignments AND he mentioned the words “consequences” and “accountability”.  Please keep in mind that I have shared with him that I am looking for a dynamic without a focus on sexual training, or anything in the sex category (which probably greatly reduced the appeal of this dynamic on his end).  What I am looking for is someone who will hold me accountable to bettering myself…and on his own, he presented me with this idea!  Oh yes… I am very intrigued, Mr. Intriguing… very intrigued, indeed.

Well, I discussed the idea with Daddy and he is on board with giving this a trial run…and so I have written back that yes… I very much like the idea of being given reading/writing assignments of his choosing, and that yes, we should discuss consequences as well….

I am very much looking forward to that particular discussion!

XOXO,

nora

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  1. Now this does sound very interesting Nora! Intelligence is a huge turn on for me too! Especially when it’s coupled with accountability and consequences! I am really interested to see how this plays out! 😀

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    1. Thank you, my sexy friend! I will be writing about his thoughts on accountability and discipline soon. I’ll say this…he has a very good understanding of human behaviors, rewards, and consequences…that’s for darn sure!

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    1. Thank you, Miss D! At this point, our emails communications really began to take off, and soon we were instant messaging as well. It was getting very exciting and lining up well with what my husband had given me permission to engage in 🙂

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  2. The idea of discipline for an intelligent woman who genuinely needs it is powerfully intriguing. For me, there’s a real appeal in not involving sex. Best of luck, and I look forward to reading all about it.

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    1. Thank you, Franz! Not making this a “sex” thing is definitely one of my husband’s boundaries, so it will be important that the person I connect with be okay with this. I mean, I don’t want to sound naive… I am guessing that the act of me submitting to his authority will no doubt be a turn on, but the idea is that my D/s dynamic not be about sex, but about self-improvement and learning great submission. Thank you for your continued readership, my friend!

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      1. I think being turned on is a definite positive. Making discipline exciting is real incentive to engage in it, stick with it, and enjoy the practical benefits that come from being disciplined. It’s not about sex, it’s just sexy. 🙂

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  3. How fun!! Would you perhaps share some of the posts he has you read? I’m always up for new reading material! Update on Ry and I’s little brother sister staycation. He still treats me like a child. We did movie night last night, my pick. I picked Captain America. I really like marvel movies and Captain America is my favorite. And Ry being the over protective older brother he is. Said no. That I had to pick something more age appropriate. I went on a whole tangent about how I’m 28 and an adult and can watch a marvel movie. And he said that nope I’m his little baby sister. Love him to death. But even as adults he still has to parent me. 🙄 So we ended up watching Mulan. A Disney favorite of mine, and his children. Much love we always doll!

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    1. Thank you for your support, Grace Marie! Sure, I can certainly “share” some of the assignments he gives me as we go. It sounds like you and your brother have a very special relationship… I do hope you enjoy your time with his family! ❤

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      1. We do. It’s just the two of us right now. I love my parents now. But as a kid my dad was in and out of jail. When I was 8 he went to federal prison until he got out last summer. And my mom was busy working to keep the family afloat and get him out of prison. So Ryan sort of took care of me when I was young. And all these years later he still can’t get it into his head that I’m not some little kid who needs protecting anymore.

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  4. You sound so much like me. Its unreal I have been following your story quietly but it’s hard your life and mine emerge in sk many ways.. I want to learn how to write my story like j but idk where to start.. I’m only a sub middle at this moment.. I’ve been many .. a domme submissive slave and little I evovle constantly and love it..

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    1. Hi, Sara! I want to offer you an official welcome to my blog. It sounds like you have been a reader for some time. I would love to hear about more of the ways that your and I’s journeys are similar…it sounds like you have had many roles in D/s! As for blogging your story…my advice….just get started! You’ll learn as you go and there is a very friendly D/s community here on WordPress to connect with. It is a pleasure to “meet” you! 🙂

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    1. LOL… it is to me, my friend! He also likes kids. While we will never meet in person, I think that men who adore puppies and children are a special type. They can be firm and masculine….and soft and gooey (and no, that was not a sexual reference!) 🙂

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  5. Well, it looks like you found what you were looking for. Keep us updated. But I am interested in the question, if your dad is as advanced as you write all the time, then why does he not take on this role himself? Moreover, you yourself are striving for this.

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    1. Hi Mary! I’m hoping you mean my “Daddy”, as in my husband. I have written quite a bit about this in the past, but to quickly summarize….my husband just doesn’t have the time or the inclination toward consistency to micromanage my time for me. He also only has the experience that we have gained together. So, he wants to see me get this intense experience from a consistent, experienced Dom (in a nut shell).

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    1. Well, I would like to say that I am better behaved than that…but, I am guessing that even if it is subconsciously….that I will test him at times. See if he is firm about deadlines, firm about my submitting quality work to him. It will be interesting to see how that plays out….

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      1. I expect you are mature enough… just that I have seen a few women make a game of it. That may be exciting to the submissive, but it can get tiring quickly for the dominant. You want it to be a positive experience – you would not want to waste it by playing games. And this has a family. You have to respect his limited time.

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        1. I definitely do not intend to play games! This is serious, for me and for him. It takes a lot of time and dedication on both our parts. I want to show as much respect and gratitude as possible for this privilege he is granting me.

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  6. This is incredibly exciting, Nora, and I love that he wants to give you reading assignments. And also the accountability, which of course makes it that much more exciting! Keep us posted 😉
    ~ Marie xox

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  7. Thank you Mr. Intriguing! I am so glad he came back! I must admit, I was definitely rooting for him after reading “Dom Shopping” and I’m so glad he seems like a good fit. Intelligence, confidence, and maturity are also such turn-ons to me and something I’m very excited to find in S so far, and that you have found in Mr. Intriguing. I too am very intrigued! I look forward to more updates!

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