DD Contract Renewal Time! 18+, NSFW

Hello, my naughty friends,

Daddy and I’s DD (domestic discipline) contract expired recently so this weekend we spent two evenings discussing the status of our dynamic.  Generally, both of us are really happy with where we are.  Daddy remarked that he has seen HUGE improvements in my attitude and demeanor toward him.  He has not found it necessary to spank me (or soap my sassy mouth) for disrespect in quite some time and that pleases him greatly (don’t get me wrong…he still spanks my bottom, but mostly just for maintenance or my own need for an emotional release).  But, we did want to switch things up a little to keep it fresh.  Daddy initiated a new protocol for when he returns home from work and gave me a new weekly assignment…for his own personal pleasure!  It brings me great joy to share our contract with you.  As always, I love to hear from you, what sorts of things you are doing in your dynamic, and if you have any suggestions 😊.

Oh, and this contract negotiation was accompanied by a very sound spanking!  But, you will have to be patient until I get around to writing about that… 😉.

Keeping it kinky!

XOXO,

nora


Domestic Discipline Contract:

Between Daddy & nora

This contract is between Daddy (Head-of-Household) and nora (his respectful wife) and will be observed for three months (expires 6/13/21).  This contract is intended to bring peace and harmony to their household, and to meet their individual needs.  Daddy is seeking validation as an equal partner, deserving of respect, and capable of making sound decisions.  nora is seeking self-improvement (i.e. learning to be less critical, speaking with more respect, becoming more open to opposing ideas or ways of doing things, and displaying a softer demeanor) through accountability to the agreed upon rules.  Daddy and nora agree to discuss her progress each week on Sunday.  At that time, this contract may be modified if both parties are in agreement.  This weekly discussion will be concluded with any of the agreed upon discipline listed below to reinforce Daddy’s position as Head-of-Household, and nora’s position as his respectful wife.          

Rules

Daddy will assist nora in creating her To-Do list each evening prior to that day.

At all times, nora will display a respectful attitude and speak respectfully to Daddy.

nora will warmly greet Daddy after each workday by saying, “Welcome home, Daddy.  Thank you for working so hard today.  I am grateful each and every day you come home to me.”

nora will make the bed and clean the kitchen each day before 5pm.

nora will complete Daddy’s laundry at a minimum once per week.

nora will always check-in with Daddy when leaving the house. 

nora will initiate implementing one act of service for the comfort of Daddy’s body each week (massage, foot & hand rubs, etc.).

nora will seek permission from Daddy before engaging in any acts of sexual self-pleasure.

nora will not argue with Daddy regarding infractions or consequences but will submit to his authority immediately.

nora will immediately self-report any infractions of the agreed upon rules.

Consequences for Breaking a Rule

A spanking

A lecture

Corner time

Grounding for up to 24 hours

Writing lines, a letter of apology, a blog post, etc.

Automatic mouth soaping for use of a disrespectful tone

For deliberate deceit or repeated infractions within the same week, Daddy may choose to deny nora self-pleasure for up to 48-hours

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    1. Well, Daddy has implemented a few different punishments for this one. The one that sticks out is he once refused to touch me sexually for several days. I hated that! I haven’t broken this rule in a very long time.

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  1. I’m really glad this contract has worked out so well for you. 🙂 I see that two rules were added, the greeting when Daddy gets home from work, and the act of body-comfort service.

    Reading through all the rules and available punishments of your contract, I get a strong sense of a wife living under genuinely strict authority and discipline. It must feel real to you, not just as a game to play in the bedroom whenever the mood strikes, but as the actual 24/7 regime under which you live. The rules sound like good ones to me, rules that require sacrifice but that you can realistically be expected to obey as a woman with an adult life beyond the contract. It provides the structure you need in clear terms — uncompromising respect for Daddy, taking care of his important needs, performing all of your household duties, submitting to the control he has over your body… In addition to providing a powerful form of accountability, it must feel good when you succeed in following the rules.

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    1. Thank you for this supportive response, Franz! And yes…this does feel very real to me. Having this kind of structure is very important for me with regard to my own happiness. It also greatly helps the overall health of my marriage. Daddy and I have been together a long time….and having a bit of an “old-fashioned” marriage really helps both of us to be happy. I actually do work in the professional world…but it pleases me to take care of my husband in this way and to treat him like the King of his castle. In return, he spoils me with affection and is very generous with me. And…I did not forget about you my friend! I am sorry I haven’t written back yet. It has just been a very busy time. I hope all is well!

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      1. Thank you for sharing your contract, Nora. I enjoy the details of it – how it is quite specific, creating many little rituals you must follow. Something both erotic and comforting about that arrangement. And I think this blogging thing should be a pleasant escape from the stresses of life. Please take all the time needed to keep it that way.

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  2. Such a lovely contract!!! Covid update on this little lady. The CDC says that you can be contagious for up to 30 days. And while that’s a super conservative estimate. My husband says he would rather be safe than sorry. And since big brother dearest (Ryan, the eldest of my siblings) offered to let me stay with him while the wife and kids are with her family. And he’s fully vaccinated and had covid last month. I’m going stay with him. Which is exciting because I love and miss my brother. But I’ll miss my husband. It’ll be just like old times with him babysitting me. Except now I’m a 28 year old attorney. And he’s a 34 year old businessman. But congratulations on the new contract! Looks promising and exciting! Much love as always doll!

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    1. Thank you for this update, Grace Marie! While I am sorry to hear you and Sawyer will be apart for a greater amount of time… I am glad to hear there is a silver lining! Enjoy this time with your brother….such wonderful news that the two of you are close! And, as always…thank you for the support with regard to my DD journey 🙂

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      1. I’m also sorry that my dearest husband and I will be separated. But we must do what we can do be safe until I can test negative. But I’m so excited to spend time with Ryan. We don’t get to see each other much. I’m close with all 4 of my siblings. But Ry always felt a special attachment to his baby sister. And you’re so welcome for the support. Reading true (and fiction) stories of your DD journey are my favorite post work ritual. Much love as always!!

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  3. It is always really interesting to read someone else’s contract so thank you for sharing. Your seems much more specific than ours. I suppose some of that is dynamic and some is the DD versus the D/s? Thank you. Missy x

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    1. I always find it interesting to see the differences in contracts (and dynamics) as well. Is your contract posted to your blog, missy? If so, do you mind sharing the direct link here? I feel that somehow I have missed seeing your contract….

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  4. Wow! Behave yourself when you read my stories! Or at the very least, make sure you got permission to play before hand! A 48 hour ban is a nightmare for naughty ladies who like to self pleasure daily! Other than that, I like this contract a lot! 😀

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    1. I have gotten very good at remembering to ask permission, my friend! And, if it is a morning that I am spending reading your blog… I ALWAYS text Daddy in advance as I know that when I am finished reading, it will be straight off to the bedroom 🙂
      Thank you for support on our contract! It is something that is very important to us.

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  5. I’ve only ever been collared once, for someone who is fiercely independent and self sustaining, it was the most erotic ad comforting thing for me, to serve him from the moment he walked in my home till he left. I miss the rules and for serving him not just in the bedroom either. He brought out a domestic submissive side to me that I miss. I hope one day to have that dynamic back, and maybe one day have such a wonderful contract like yours.

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    1. It sounds like that was a very fulfilling connection, Storm! I do quite enjoy feeling domestic…taking care of my home and my husband…it brings me great personal fulfillment, while also working as a college professor (and also as a therapist at times). I am hoping that when this difficult part of your life has passed, that you find a relationship that brings you this kind of fulfillment…and comes with a contract too! ❤

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  6. Nora! I am so happy that you and Daddy have renewed your contract and are feeling happy with where you are in your relationship! This contract (although very similar to the last) is clearly thoughtfully considered and mutually beneficial. Congratulations! I hope you continue to grow together and find happiness 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Clairevoyant! Yes, it is very similar, just a couple of changes…but those changes have felt quite significant. It has come to mean so much to both of us for me to greet him after work each day in this manner ❤

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      1. It is such a beautiful greeting! And as a woman who loves words, I’m sure it means a lot to you and serves as a reminder of your love for each other every day.

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