Hello, my naughty friends,
It is that time again and Daddy and I have worked diligently to update our Domestic Discipline (DD) contract. We were both happy to throw out some of the hardly-ever-used rules and include a few new items and changes in wording that felt more meaningful. We have agreed to implement this contract for a two-month period, and then, assuming everything is working and feels right…sign for six months! This has been quite the journey for us—figuring out what fits and what works best—and I am very pleased to share our finalized version.
I would love to hear from those of you who implement contracts! Having been through the process, are Daddy and I missing anything here?
Keeping it kinky, folks!
XOXO,
nora
Domestic Discipline Contract:
Between Daddy & nora
This contract is between Daddy (Head-of-Household) and nora (his respectful wife) and will be observed for two months (expires 3/07/21). This contract is intended to bring peace and harmony to their household, and to meet their individual needs. Daddy is seeking validation as an equal partner, deserving of respect, and capable of making sound decisions. nora is seeking self-improvement (i.e. learning to be less critical, speaking with more respect, becoming more open to opposing ideas or ways of doing things, and displaying a softer demeanor) through accountability to the agreed upon rules. Daddy and nora agree to discuss her progress each week on Sunday. At that time, this contract may be modified if both parties are in agreement. This weekly discussion will be concluded with any of the agreed upon discipline listed below to reinforce Daddy’s position as Head-of-Household, and nora’s position as his respectful wife.
Rules
Daddy will assist nora in creating her To-Do list each evening prior to that day.
At all times, nora will display a respectful attitude and speak respectfully to Daddy.
nora will make the bed and clean the kitchen each day before 5pm.
nora will complete Daddy’s laundry at a minimum once per week.
nora will always check-in with Daddy when leaving the house.
nora will seek permission from Daddy before engaging in any acts of sexual self-pleasure.
nora will immediately self-report any infractions of the agreed upon rules.
nora will not argue with Daddy regarding infractions or consequences but will submit to his authority immediately.
Consequences for Breaking a Rule
A spanking
A lecture
Corner time
Grounding for up to 24 hours
Writing lines, a letter of apology, or a blog post
Automatic mouth soaping for any disrespect
For deliberate deceit or repeated offenses within the same week, Daddy may choose to deny nora self-pleasure for up to 48-hours
Finding Strength in my Submission 
Congratulations. I know this makes you very happy.
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It sure does….thank you, MJ!😘
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This is a great contract. Obviously as I mentioned in a prior comment spankings are off of the table for this girl right now. But I like the idea of checking in every Sunday night. Thanks for the idea!
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You are welcome, Grace Marie! And, congrats again about your bun in the oven😘
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Thanks girl!
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I have no experience with this kind of contract, but I think yours could make an excellent model for similar minded couples to adopt, adding or substituting any goals or issues that apply to their own particular needs.
This contract spells out some high level of control. I hope it works out great for you, and you’ll want to renew the agreement in two months. I think, if followed, the contract should provide a solid foundation for a better run household and good behavior – and with the effective guardrails so specified. It’s beautiful when something can make your marriage both more exciting and pragmatically better at the same time.
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Thank you, franzcoughka! That is definitely our intent… a household that runs more smoothly, and two people who experience less friction. We absolutely find this contract beneficial to our marriage 🙂
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Seems that evolution is happening within your home. I hope this revised contract works well for you both. I think it will! Stay safe!
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Thank you, Michael! I think we finally have it dialed down to what is most important to us, and, what works for us. Love to you and your Queen! ❤
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From someone who isn’t in such an arrangement with their significant other, it’s really interesting to see a working contract drawn up and seeing how you two will get on with it 😊 I’d have to hard limit mouth soaping for sure though! 😂 Hope you’re well Nora ❤️
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Thank you, Miss Violet! I hope to avoid the soap at all costs (which is why it is so effective). Seeing it there as a potential punishment makes me want to be a very good girl 🙂
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This is great! We have a living contract. I’m working up a post on it in the next few weeks. We also do rules s little different too. I’ll get a post up about both. We bounced around trying different methods before what we have sort of evolved into being. It’s interesting how unique each dynamic is.
Great photo, btw!
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I will look forward to your post, minnie! I agree, it is very interesting to see how each dynamic works. One of the things I love about WordPress is being able to learn about how others are doing things. It gives me some great ideas!!!
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Me too!
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I wonder what is the hardest rule for you to keep.
For me it would be, “nora will immediately self-report any infractions of the agreed upon rules.”
We had a similar rule and I couldn’t keep it. Spanking were just too hard.
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The hardest rule to obey in this contract is asking his permission to self-pleasure…I find that so humiliating! Sometimes he lets me get away with a simple text that reads, “Daddy, may I please have permission?”….but other times, he texts back, and asks permission for what….and I have to blantantly say it…..so embarrassing!!!
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Nice. Establishing relationship goals seems to be the first step.
Creating to do lists for the next day is a perfect way to understand what is going on in your partners life and to make sure unattainable tasks are not created. Things I’m still trying to figure out.
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