Say no to the big O? #18+, NSFW

Hello, my friends!

I am a bit nervous (and excited) about a journey which I am about to embark, and I wanted to document my experiences here…for your reading pleasure 😊.  Feeling inspired by ddjennifer’s post, No-vember: Orgasm Control, Daddy and I had a conversation about what it might be like to purposefully restrict my orgasms …to enhance my pleasure!  If you remember, in our domestic discipline contract I was very careful not to give Daddy too much control over my orgasms as a form of punishment.  Let’s face it…orgasming is pretty much the best thing ever, so why in the world would I want to restrict that?   As we deemed in our contract, orgasm restriction is only to be used if I repeat a misbehavior twice in one week.

However, after reading ddjennifer’s post, I began to wonder if I was missing out on something with orgasm control (as I am learning, orgasm control is different from orgasm restriction).  Collaredmichael is a pretty big fan of this practice too (though that guy can go over year without an orgasm…how does he do it???).  After discussing the idea with Daddy, we’ve decided that orgasm control for the purpose of enhancing my pleasure is something we’d like to try.  So, this week, I will engage in “edging” at least once per day (Daddy may choose to assign me additional “edging sessions” if he thinks there is time in my schedule).  If you aren’t familiar with the term, edging means stopping yourself right as you are on the brink of orgasm.  To me…this does not sound especially fun…it sounds like torture!  But, I keep thinking back on what ddjenny and collaredmichael have to say and according to them, there are some benefits to restricting one’s orgasms.  Some of these benefits include feeling extremely sexually charged (on those days you are edging with no happy ending) and enjoying even more intense, magnificent orgasms than per usual…and this my friends sounds like something worth pursuing to this girl 😊.

I have no idea how I will do with this.  I have never purposefully tried to stop myself right before I orgasm.  I am worried that I will be too caught up in the moment and forget to stop.  To encourage me to succeed (and not give in to the pleasure of the moment), Daddy has agreed to give me a steamy sex scene on Friday night when he returns after traveling for work all week…and I will get to experience one of these intense, magnificent orgasms.  If I should fail…he is not going to touch me (in a sexual way) until the following week.  And, I’m guessing there will be a spanking as well.  Trust me…this girl is feeling very motivated to succeed!!! 

I’m off to engage in my first edging session now…wish me luck!

Keeping it kinky,

Nora  

PS…I would love to hear about your experiences with edging and orgasm control 😊

     

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  1. This sounds interesting. We have tried edging and a little bit of orgasm control but it is something I would definitely like to explore more. Good luck and I look forward to reading about how you get on. Missy x

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    1. Thank you, Missy! We haven’t experimented with this at all as of yet. I have to admit….I was a little nervous edging myself today. I think I may have been overthinking it. In any case….looking forward to seeing how I feel at the end of the week😊

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  2. Good luck
    As
    For edging
    I have an uncanny ability to unintentionally edge my Kitten when performing cunnilingus. She often takes a good 15 -20 minutes on average to reach climax from tongue and finger but when I play with rhythm and where I touch we once went nearly an hour before she started to cum.

    Then it was one long rolling orgasm that shifted into the next I let off the tongue and continued to apply fingers and a third followed by a fourth. By this time I was thoroughly aroused and mounted my Cat unleashing my beast within taking her to several more before I eventually came.
    It was mind blowing.
    Usually neither one of us are patient enough to intentionally edge to that extreme. But when it happens she says it is transcendent.

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    1. Thank you for sharing this, David Mei! Your descriptions of you and your kitten are quite arousing. Do you have a blog? I clicked on your avatar and was able to read a bit about you, but I didn’t see a web address. Please let me know…I would love to follow you 🙂

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  3. Good luck! I am the opposite and find my orgasms are difficult or non-existent after any extended denial. I wish I had the experience of increased pleasure, but it seems that many people do. I hope it’s as explosive as you are anticipating!

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    1. I will definitely be posting about it, Prefectdt! My first attempt at edging wasn’t much to write about, but my second attempt definitely was note worthy. And this morning, I find myself feeling quite tingly…down there… 🙂

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  4. Do enjoy!!! There’s much to be said for this particular type of discomfort. *wink, wink* Orgasm control and denial are high up in my list of kinks. I may have to approach the subject with Daddy once again, as the idea makes Him uncomfortable. I can’t wait to read how it goes!!!! *giggles*

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    1. Thank you, Succulent! I am enjoying the journey so far ;-). I promise to write about it when I have collected a bit more “data” 🙂
      What makes the idea of orgasm denial and control uncomfortable for your Daddy?

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      1. It strikes Him as a punishment and denying me pleasure without seeing the upside of the denial. 😉 Maybe it’s something we can play with in a scene? I think it’s more of how He’s thinking about it than what it would actually be like. He loves to see me beg and squirm…. just another way to do that!!! I’ll let you know how our chats on the subject go.

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  5. I think I may be a little bit in love with you after reading this! You are fabulously free and inquisitive! It’s a delight to read your adventures.
    Edging is something that Tom does with me quite frequently, I could murder him when he really gets on one with it because it could last for a couple of weeks before he allows me to orgasm! He understands me so well he knows exactly how to control my orgasm. He recognises the instant that I get right to the edge and he pulls back and grins at me. But when he does let me go over… OMG … it is mind blowing in the extreme and I want to go back to the start and do it all over again! I just hope Tom never reads this comment now! I haven’t tried it through masturbation yet, I’m not sure I have the level of self control that would require. I’m always breaking the rules! I’m going to follow these posts of yours with great interest! Good luck Nora, and relax honey, you never know, you could find you enjoy it! 😛 xxx

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    1. A couple of weeks???? How do you stand it, girl!?!? I’m seriously wondering if I can make it till Friday…..I can’t even imagine my Daddy edging me…edging myself is bad enough. I feel like a walking advertisement for sex this week…turgid nipples, constant wetness between my thighs, and the fantasies in my mind just won’t turn off! This better be one freaking amazing orgasm on Friday…. 🙂

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      1. Oh my …You said turgid nipples! I adore the word turgid, it has such a full throbbing sound to it!
        Now Nora, you read the Tom series, I have no choice but to stand it! It’s Tom, there is no going around him! 😂🤣😂
        You have to make it to Friday! If you don’t, then the last few days have been for nothing and you will be punished and made to wait another week and that’s not the happy ending you are planning! Trust me, it will be worth it! Hang in there honey! 💋😋

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        1. I love the word turgid, too….so aptly descriptive! Knowing how fierce you are, your Tom really must be a force to be reckoned with…I cannot imagine anyone denying you an orgasm for too long! And…I promise that I will wait until Friday and not give in to the overwhelming need I am experiencing to orgasm…this experiment will not be in vain! Thank you for your support, my sexy friend 🙂

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