You may remember some time back, when the self-help book, The Secret, became wildly popular. There was a movie, and there is now a documentary on Netflix which I watched this morning while on the treadmill. The premise of The Secret is that like attracts like. For example, if you emit positive energy, you will attract positive things to you. If you emit negative energy, you will attract negative experiences. This concept is referred to as the Law of Attraction. The books also high lights the use of visualization and approaching your life and the universe with gratitude.
I’m not putting this information before you today because this is a new concept in my life. In general, I am a very optimistic person, who wakes up happy, and loves her life. I have experienced some pretty severe depression over the last few years, deriving from traumatic events which transpired, but despite this… I am blessed.
So, what is your point, nora? This is a sex blog not a self-help pitstop.
Recent conversations with kdaddy (who can be very direct, I might add!) made me realize that I have been my own worst enemy as of late. He reminded me that when you want something, you don’t limit yourself, you don’t give up on your dreams, and you don’t tell yourself that you can’t have it. Miss D, CollaredMichael, Marie, Pelgris, and many others echoed this sentiment.
When I apply The Secret to my life, I must first put out the intention. So, here it goes.
I am asking the Universe to bring me a Dominant who will be interested in helping me grow as a person and who will have my best interests at heart. I want someone who will accept my submission and lift me up, helping me to live my best life.
I am excited to put this out there! I feel fired up and I feel hopeful. It is not up to me to determine who this will be or how it will happen…it is just my job to believe that it will happen. This could happen in so many ways, there are endless possibilities! It might be that my husband masters himself and further matures and grows into the role of a full-time Dominant, it might be one of my friends here on WordPress who has admired from afar, it might be a couple who see me as their pet project, it may be someone that I haven’t even met yet…
I’m not going to give up. The Universe has the perfect Dominant designed just for me. The person, or, persons, who want to help me become the best version of me that I can be.
While I am not quite ready to take the leap of advertising my submission (I’d like the Universe to make this happen more organically, please), it did bring me great joy today to see how many websites there are designed to help Dominants and submissives connect. And…who knew!?! So many of those people are looking for on-line only dynamics… I never would have dreamed this!
I am open. I am not afraid. And, I am looking forward to the journey.