Butterflies 18+, NSFW

If you’ve been following my blog recently, you know that Daddy and I have been giving great consideration to having me submit to a dear friend of ours.  Well, negotiations have taken place, and all parties are on board.  I will continue to submit to my husband, in and out of the bedroom.  And, I will now submit to Sir, long-distance, who will see to managing my day to day routine, my health and wellness, and my mind.  The term “micro-manage” was discussed…

You might be wondering….why?  Why submit to a second Dom when your husband is there to manage you in person?  This is the million-dollar question.  Our current answer to that is that Daddy and I both feel that his strengths lie elsewhere.  Don’t get me wrong…nobody dominates me and makes my fantasies come true like he does.  And, he delivers one heck of a spanking, whether it is at my request or because I have shown him disrespect!  However, he has neither the time (due to the stressful nature of his job which has him traveling away from home quite a bit), nor really the inclination to manage my time in such a way to keep me in a submissive mindset.  It is our hopes that through my submission to Sir, I will become a better, more submissive wife to my husband.

We are starting this journey with a one-month commitment.  Scheduling is a bit difficult as there is quite a large time difference, but we have come to an agreement on a general schedule.  Tomorrow, I will speak with my new Dominant for the first time on the phone.  The butterflies in my stomach are fluttering about at full speed.  To say that I am nervous is an understatement.  I am so worried that I will disappoint him in some way, or that I’ll come off in a manner that is displeasing or off-putting.

Wish me luck.  I have not felt this nervous about something since my first interview to become a college professor.  I look forward to sharing this journey with you.

Stay kinky, friends!

With love,

nora