Negotiating submission… 18+ only, please

If you read my previous post, you know that Daddy and I are currently in negotiations with another party to share my submission.  In a nutshell, I would serve two Dominants.  I would serve my husband, first and foremost.  He will remain the only man whom I share my body with, and he would be the one to enact any discipline required by either of them.  I would also serve our Friend (I apologize that I clumsily continue to refer to him as “our Friend” but I have failed to ask him how he would prefer me to refer to him in this space as of yet.  As a sign of respect, I will capitalize the “F” in friend, until I have received further instruction).  Exactly how I would serve him, and to what extent, is currently being negotiated…but at this point, all parties involved (Daddy and I, and my Friend and his wife) are on board.

At this time, Daddy and I have sent over our initial proposal for this dynamic.  Last night, I received a letter in return, with our Friend outlining his proposal for our power exchange.  This was an eight-page document (in Word), outlining his vision for my submission.  Two of the characteristics in our Friend that I admire most is how forward thinking and thorough he is.  Honestly, my initial reaction was to be terrified!  Why in my right mind would I consider handing over control of my mind and my daily activities to a man who is so incredibly perceptive, intuitive, wicked smart, and thoroughly dominant?  Well, if you have been reading my blog for any length of time…you already know the answer to this question…

While I cannot reveal the contents of His proposal at this time, I will share this one tidbit (and hope it doesn’t earn me a spanking!).  A direct quote from His letter, “By the way, I did mention that I am a sadist, didn’t I?  Just wanted to be sure that is understood and that you know what you are asking for.”  Be honest…. all of you subs out there just got a little bit squirmy 😊

Hope all is well in your world, and I want to thank you for your continued readership!

Stay kinky, my friends 😊



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  1. I am so incredibly excited for you! And I admire your husband for being so open and understanding. I am looking forward to reading all about your new journey (I do hope you plan to blog about it, with the permission of your Daddy and Friend of course!)

    And yes, reading this post did make me squirm lol

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    1. Thank you, Miss D! I am very excited about this possible journey. I feel pretty confident that we will be able to reach some kind of agreement between the four of us. An agreement that honors each of our marriages, and provides a safe forum within to engage in a power exchange. At this point, I have permission from both of them to blog freely, but I know that could change (and honestly, the idea of both of them having that type of control over me is thrilling!).
      Glad to return the favor….MANY of your posts have made me squirm!!!

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    1. Hi there! Thank you for stopping by. No, this will be the first time (if all parties can reach an agreement) that I would be serving two Doms at the same time. It is all very new and very exciting!

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    1. Thank you, kdaddy23!!! If we progress forward, I am hoping to share the details of this arrangement in the hopes that it might help others who have contemplated this but weren’t sure how to proceed. I value your readership and your perspective. Thank you 🙂

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  2. So another teasing post! Come on Nora, we need details… lol. So as your Friend will be your Dom, will you be FaceTiming with him? Zooming?? Lol. Will he and his wife see you nude—and with red cheeks? You see enquiring minds want to know!

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