Serving two Dominants….?

For those here who know me, you know that I am crazy in love with my husband.  Our life has been no fairytale, please don’t get me wrong.  We have loved hard, we have hurt one another deeply, and we have rebuilt when necessary.  But neither of us have ever wavered for even a second in our lifetime commitment to one another.  We both try to lift the other up and support one another as we navigate this life together.

That is largely how this blog was born.  My husband committed to becoming my Dominant and I needed somewhere to share the overwhelming excitement that came with that journey!  And what a journey we have had.  Well, you’ve read my posts…we have had some fun with this 😊

It has also been challenging at times.  We have learned that while I yearn for a 24/7 dynamic that this takes an incredible amount of time and energy on the behalf of the Dominant.  This type of consistency is not always compatible with my husband’s personality and schedule.  This has led to stops and starts with our D/s and to some frustration on both sides.

But, we are not giving up!  My husband very much wants to see me satisfied and living my lifelong fantasy.  So…this is where the possibility of a second Dominant comes in…

You see, about a year ago, I met a friend through this blog.  He has been incredibly supportive of my D/s journey with my husband and has made me privy to his D/s adventures with his very lovely wife.  Both my husband and his wife know of our communication and are supportive of our friendship.  Despite the length of time that we have been corresponding, I have retained my anonymity.  It is truly a connection of two minds who share an infatuation for all that is D/s.

So…when Daddy and I came to the conclusion that we needed to come at our D/s dynamic in a different way, one of the ideas was to ask our dear friend if he may be willing to help.  I made a very respectful request to my friend and his wife that they might consider my submission, and permission was granted to send a proposal for what my husband and I have in mind.  Please note, this would be a long-distance dynamic and carried out entirely on-line.  My husband would continue to be the only man to make love to me, and to spank my naughty bottom when I deserve it.

So, there you have it!  I am waiting on pins and needles to hear back from my friend, to see if he and his wife might be willing to negotiate the terms of my submission.  I feel energized and alive.  No matter what their decision is, I am a lucky girl.

Stay kinky, friends!



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    1. I will definitely keep you posted! Daddy and I are so excited. I really don’t expect to hear anything right away though. My friend is incredibly thoughtful and forward thinking. I know this isn’t something he will take lightly.

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  1. This is super exciting! I’ve thought about this type of thing before myself, but I couldn’t figure out how to make it work really. So I’ll be excited to hear the results and how you make it work! Love love!

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    1. I will definitely write about it (if I am allowed to). Part of our proposal was that my Daddy would carry out any discipline that is requested by our friend. There are so many elements to be considered. I am hoping that the four of us get the chance to work through some of the challenges of an on-line, D/s dynamic.

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        1. When I read your first comment, it immediately made me think of the book of Matthew, which is why I responded the way I did. I do not care to compare my D/s dynamic(s) to religion. If your comment was not made in that context, I will say that my husband and I have discussed this quite a bit. Even though we are proposing a primarily non-sexual dynamic between my friend and I, with regard to my submission, my husband and I both recognize that there is no way around the intimacy that is born from the power exchange. While I am certain there will be bumps along the road, I also feel that through communication between all of us, we can navigate these challenges. On the other hand…. what do I know? It may be one of those situations where you don’t know what you don’t know…and will have to figure out along the way 🙂

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          1. Wasn’t even in that context except to say that people think it’s a very bad idea and all that… and I don’t agree with it at all. As a guy who spent 20+ years having “three wives,” I know it can be done without all the assumed drama and other complications. But this? Your plan thrills me because I just love it when those old, ancient notions get kicked to the curb.

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  2. No matter what happens. The relationship between your friend and your husband is still top priority. Goal is to fine balance and a medium that makes every one feel happy, loved, and supported. Goodluck with everything. Open communication is the key.

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  3. This is exciting news! I look forward to hearing how it works for you. I’m going out on a limb and saying he will definitely say yes!! It’s just a matter of when! Stay well and stay naked!

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    1. LOL….thank you, Michael! At this point, all parties have said “yes”, but we are still working out the details. Daddy and I are both really excited about this. It has certainly re-ignited our own D/s flame. Hoping to write about the spanking that I received yesterday…yowzer! It had been awhile… 🙂

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