For those here who know me, you know that I am crazy in love with my husband. Our life has been no fairytale, please don’t get me wrong. We have loved hard, we have hurt one another deeply, and we have rebuilt when necessary. But neither of us have ever wavered for even a second in our lifetime commitment to one another. We both try to lift the other up and support one another as we navigate this life together.
That is largely how this blog was born. My husband committed to becoming my Dominant and I needed somewhere to share the overwhelming excitement that came with that journey! And what a journey we have had. Well, you’ve read my posts…we have had some fun with this 😊
It has also been challenging at times. We have learned that while I yearn for a 24/7 dynamic that this takes an incredible amount of time and energy on the behalf of the Dominant. This type of consistency is not always compatible with my husband’s personality and schedule. This has led to stops and starts with our D/s and to some frustration on both sides.
But, we are not giving up! My husband very much wants to see me satisfied and living my lifelong fantasy. So…this is where the possibility of a second Dominant comes in…
You see, about a year ago, I met a friend through this blog. He has been incredibly supportive of my D/s journey with my husband and has made me privy to his D/s adventures with his very lovely wife. Both my husband and his wife know of our communication and are supportive of our friendship. Despite the length of time that we have been corresponding, I have retained my anonymity. It is truly a connection of two minds who share an infatuation for all that is D/s.
So…when Daddy and I came to the conclusion that we needed to come at our D/s dynamic in a different way, one of the ideas was to ask our dear friend if he may be willing to help. I made a very respectful request to my friend and his wife that they might consider my submission, and permission was granted to send a proposal for what my husband and I have in mind. Please note, this would be a long-distance dynamic and carried out entirely on-line. My husband would continue to be the only man to make love to me, and to spank my naughty bottom when I deserve it.
So, there you have it! I am waiting on pins and needles to hear back from my friend, to see if he and his wife might be willing to negotiate the terms of my submission. I feel energized and alive. No matter what their decision is, I am a lucky girl.
Stay kinky, friends!