Hello my WordPress friends!
I am excited to report that the sun is shining once again, and that my husband (or, should I call him Daddy?) and I are in a good place. We have both been putting in the hard work (lots of therapy, lots of deep conversations, lots of self-reflection on both sides, etc) to get our marriage back on track…and, I think I can finally say with some certainty, that we are back on track!
Marriage is difficult. It is easy at first (at least, it was for us), but about eight years in, we both began to struggle. We were both growing, and not always together. We fell into some really bad communication patterns, which included being hyper-critical (me) and being passive-aggressive (him). But yet, here we are….16 years under our belts now (Mmm….Daddy’s belt 😊), and still both actively and passionately trying to make our marriage a happy & healthy one. I don’t want to sound like everything is all roses all the time, but things are pretty good for us.
And…my big news (sorry I kept you in suspense, collaredmichael)… Daddy and I are back to living the D/s lifestyle! After many long, honest, and revealing conversations over the past two months, Daddy finally felt ready to dominate me again. He had been wanting to restore our D/s, maybe as badly as I had been, but he didn’t feel right dominating me while we were still healing from his infidelity. I feel that this was very wise and it was worth the wait.
I feel a bit like a school girl again…giddy, star struck, and super horny…
I look forward to what this year will bring us and I want to wish you all a very happy new year!
Love, nora
P.S. My first spanking from Daddy, to “seal the deal” on our D/s commitment to one another, was heaven! It stung like the devil, but reinforced in my mind and heart, his dominance over me, and my willingness to submit to his authority. Happy spanking!
P.P.S And…one more thing…check out one of my new favorite spanking blogs here. You will find some very well-written spanking stories as well as some fabulous spanking pics…enjoy!
I am SO happy to read this!!! Happy New Year to both of you!
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Thank you, Ms. Dixie!!! 😘
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The best things in life are worth waiting for. Sure, it’s a cliché… but often proves to be true. I’m happy for you. — AJT
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Thank you, Alpha!
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This post made me very very happy! I love how committed you both are to making it work. And putting in the work needed to make it work! All the best his new year my lovely friend xoxox
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Thank you, Missus!!! Sending love your way XOXO
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What wonderful news!!! I hope you and your Daddy stay on track and continue to heal and move forward together! A pregnancy would have been exciting too though…😜
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LOL….you are naughty! No baby, no thank you😊
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That’s great news! Congratulations on getting back to that comfort level.
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Thank you, and thank you for stopping by!😊
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I’m glad you guys are back on track!
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Thank you, HeartsHope!😘
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how exciting!! best of luck to you both and enjoying the LS again.
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Thank you, LunaKitten! And thank you for stopping by 🙂
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I am pleased that you are back, both here and in terms of your submission. Happy new year to you both ❤️
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Thank you, missy! Glad to be back to it, and to hopefully have something to contribute to our WordPress community as we have new experiences 🙂
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Oooo that sounds exciting. I look forward to reading about those 😊
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So happy for you. Was very concerned not hearing from one of my favorite people. Even a old vanilla is grateful for spirit. Your a such a minx and I hope your daddy enjoys getting you under his control (hehe.) Much love and happiness -Andi
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LOL….thank you, andi! I have to say “minx” has always been one of my favorite naughty nicknames! Much love and happiness to you as well in this new year! 🙂
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Wow! Best of luck on the track! 🙂
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Thank you, sugarjane!!! 🙂
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Please keep posting. Spanking is not my area of interest, but it is always nice to discover new horizons.
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Well….you never know what one of your sugar daddies might request 🙂
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That is true, of course. But I still hope to be convincing enough to guide the requests out of certain topics.
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LOL…I don’t blame you one bit!
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I know. Really appreciate that.
But deep inside I am still afraid one of them might ask for something I am not ready for.
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Well, I imagine in your position, that probably happens sometimes. I thought you did well preparing yourself for the anal plug. Did your Daddy ever require that you wear it?
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Oh yes, he did…
This takes time to get used to. I am not sure I am ready to reveal the story to all, but as long as you asked (and I also believe no-one ever reads the comments anyway so it stays between us so far) he took full advantage of my butt being available. I thought it was going to be more of an addition to our usual sex adventures, but it turned to (and still is) the main bit of it…
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LOL…that doesn’t surprise me! Are you finding it enjoyable yet?
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Honestly? Not really. 😦 It is not as bad as I thought, but… Hard to explain. It is not only physical, which is tight and tense, but mostly emotional.
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