Hello my WordPress friends!
I am excited to report that the sun is shining once again, and that my husband (or, should I call him Daddy?) and I are in a good place. We have both been putting in the hard work (lots of therapy, lots of deep conversations, lots of self-reflection on both sides, etc) to get our marriage back on track…and, I think I can finally say with some certainty, that we are back on track!
Marriage is difficult. It is easy at first (at least, it was for us), but about eight years in, we both began to struggle. We were both growing, and not always together. We fell into some really bad communication patterns, which included being hyper-critical (me) and being passive-aggressive (him). But yet, here we are….16 years under our belts now (Mmm….Daddy’s belt 😊), and still both actively and passionately trying to make our marriage a happy & healthy one. I don’t want to sound like everything is all roses all the time, but things are pretty good for us.
And…my big news (sorry I kept you in suspense, collaredmichael)… Daddy and I are back to living the D/s lifestyle! After many long, honest, and revealing conversations over the past two months, Daddy finally felt ready to dominate me again. He had been wanting to restore our D/s, maybe as badly as I had been, but he didn’t feel right dominating me while we were still healing from his infidelity. I feel that this was very wise and it was worth the wait.
I feel a bit like a school girl again…giddy, star struck, and super horny…
I look forward to what this year will bring us and I want to wish you all a very happy new year!
P.S. My first spanking from Daddy, to “seal the deal” on our D/s commitment to one another, was heaven! It stung like the devil, but reinforced in my mind and heart, his dominance over me, and my willingness to submit to his authority. Happy spanking!