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Sizzlin’ Saturdays- Bare all!

Hello all!  Welcome back to Sizzlin’ Saturdays…Week #4! I am excited to report that I have followed through on my commitment to myself that I would post four consecutive Sizzlin’ Saturdays’ prompts, and even more excited that so many of you have played along…a big thank you to you!

It is my hope you will participate this week and reveal some of your sexy secrets!  If you’d like to play, I hope you’ll use the Sizzlin’ Saturdays clip art and leave me a comment here letting me know to check out your blog.

Let’s make it hot! Sizzle sizzle!

Love, nora

P.S.   Daddy and I are traveling right now, but I promise to catch up on your blogs ASAP!  Happy reading and writing all 🙂

Sizzlin’ Saturdays Weekly Writing Prompt- Week 4

  1. Describe your favorite sex toy and what it does for you.
  2. What is one of your hard limits and why?
  3. Is there anything sex related that you have never tried but would like to? Details please!
Posted in TMI Tuesday

TMI Tuesday- a little about me!

Are you ready? Get set…Go do TMI Tuesday!

  1. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, your future, what would you want to know?

I’ve been mulling over this question for about 24 hours now, and in every scenario I come up with (i.e. When will I die?  When will Daddy die? Will our marriage last forever? Will one of us get cancer?, etc.) I just keep coming back to the answer…I really don’t want to know, I’d rather just experience life as it happens.

  1. What do you value most in your sex life?

What I value most in our sex life is Daddy’s willingness and desire to satisfy me sexually.  He’s always been open and willing to try just about anything I’ve suggested and done so eagerly.  I am a very lucky girl.

  1. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

I am by nature, a fairly serious person.  I work in mental health and as a professor, two careers which are heavily regulated by privacy laws & confidentiality.  With that in mind, I tend to use WordPress, where you guys know me, as my outlet…where I can be silly and let loose, and talk about inappropriate things.  So…a glimpse into the real me…well, I don’t like to joke about race, gender, sexual preference, etc.  I am a very culturally sensitive person and accepting of who others are and it bothers me a lot when others don’t take this as seriously or joke about it in a demeaning way.  I tend to always root for the underdog or the less understood.

Another thing that bugs me…showing disrespect to the office of President of the United States.  Yeah…I get it…Trump is a joke to most and I’ll be honest, I don’t like the guy much and haven’t found him impressive in any way.  However, it really bothers me to see all the memes, the new cartoon depicting Trump, etc., as I feel that this in part, diminishes the patriotism in my country.  I worry about what this blatant lack of respect to one of the most important offices in my nation is modeling for the generations behind me.  In any case…. I’ll probably regret bringing this up as some are going to see me as a pro-Trump person…but the truth is, I am a pro-President person.  Regardless of political preference, I believe that the office of President is one that deserves respect.

  1. If you had to move to a state or country besides the one in which you currently live, where would you move and why?

I honestly love where I live and I have a feeling that Daddy and I will always live here.  If we were to move to another state, it would be to somewhere even more rural or off the grid.  Daddy always talks about Alaska…but I think Washington and Idaho are beautiful too.  If I had to choose another country to live in, Scotland sure is beautiful.  Daddy and I really enjoyed our time there and the people were very friendly.

  1. Are you too nice?

No, I don’t think so.  I try to meet people where they are…if they are super nice, I’m super nice.  If they are a bit reserved, I try to hold back a bit.  And, unlike many, I have no problem saying “no” to people if I am too busy, not interested, etc.

Bonus: Falling in love is _____ . (one word only).

Falling in love is easy.  Staying in love is where the real challenge is.

Thank you for reading, my friends!

Love, nora


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Posted in D/s

The Mantra of a Submissive

The Mantra of a Submissive

After much discussion, trial and error, and starts and re-starts, Daddy and I have renewed our commitment to a 24/7 power exchange.  This renewed commitment highlights our desire for Daddy to lead our marriage and to have full and total authority over me.  This dynamic requires that I fully submit to him in whichever ways he desires, and that he has the right to discipline me if I fall short of his expectations.  For any of my new readers, we have been living this life style for just over a year’s time and our marriage has dramatically improved!  Our sex life has as well 🙂

For the most part, this dynamic has been occurring with ease between us, however; my baby girl side occasionally rears her not-so-appealing head at times and we were seeking a remedy for this problem.  But first, clarification: I would describe my “baby girl side” as some of my more child-like qualities… the me who gets cranky, whiny, and throws tantrums when she doesn’t get her way or when she is being disciplined (or when she is tired or hungry).  That said, my baby girl side tends to get me into trouble and I resist Daddy’s re-direction and even his discipline when in this frame of mind (which gets me in even more trouble!).

To address this issue, we figured out that part of the problem is that I am not in the right “head space” during this time.  I am not feeling submissive (and am acting like a terrible brat!).  Together, Daddy and I created a mantra that he will prompt me to say when I am behaving like this, in the hopes that by saying these words I will be reminded of the commitment that I made to him and to our D/s dynamic.  The following mantra was created in the hopes that it will: remind me of who I am and who he is within our dynamic, remind me that I need to honor my commitment to obey him, and reinforce within my own mind his authority over me.


My submission mantra:

I submit to you, my Husband and my Daddy,

freely and without reservation,

and especially when I don’t want to.

I will work harder to maintain a more pleasing attitude,

and to submit to your will.

I accept your complete and total authority over me.

I am yours.


Unfortunately, Daddy is away this week, traveling for work.  We created this mantra together on Sunday and he expressed that he expects me to have it fully and perfectly memorized for him by Thursday evening when he returns.  I worked on it for 30 minutes today (this was at Daddy’s request, and I was instructed to be sitting on the small glass plug while rehearsing) both reciting it out loud and typing it over and over.  While I feel that I have it memorized, the true test will be when I try to recall it tomorrow, to see if it has imprinted upon my memory.

I am really enjoying our renewed commitment to our dynamic.  The feelings of love and respect that I have for my husband are incredibly intense at times…and I feel like a young girl in love again, without the weight of the world on my shoulders.

Thank you for stopping by!

Happy reading and writing 🙂

Love, nora

Posted in Uncategorized

Happy Blog-o-versary to me!

Hello all,

WordPress sent me a friendly little alert this morning to remind me that I have been operating my blog for one year as of today!  I’m not sure why, but that makes me feel a little warm and fuzzy inside.  I decided to brainstorm on that a bit and I came up with a list of all the great things that have happened for me as a result of my blogging journey.

Benefits of blogging:

  1. The incredible interactions: I have “met” so many amazing people here on WordPress. People who have shared in my journey, offered support & guidance, applauded my efforts, shared their stories…it’s been amazing!  And, a few of you have become friends…and I am truly grateful for that.
  2. The no-filter outlet: To steal a phrase from a friend, it is pretty “amaze-balls” that I can hop on WordPress and write about pretty much anything, without worrying about judgement. Where else can you talk masturbation, non-consensual spanking, sex toys, and downright dirty sexual fantasies?  Where else can I pour my heart out about wanting to be dominated in degrading ways or disciplined by my husband?  I don’t have to worry about being politically correct or being some “normalized” version of myself.  I can just be me…no filter.  That is pretty damn special!
  3. The platform- This is a space where many of us have come together to bounce ideas off one another, ask questions, share our stories, poetry, photos, and music. It is a unique platform in that it offers the exposure of one’s work to others & theirs to you, anonymity (should you desire it), artistic license in the designing of one’s page, and the statistics feature which allows us to see how many people view our stuff & from where in the world they reside. Pretty cool if you ask me!

Feeling a bit nostalgic this morning, I decided to review my own statistics.  I almost can’t believe that I have written 173 posts in this year’s span and that my blog has been viewed over 100,000 times by people from all over the world!  Most of my visitors come from the US and the UK, but I think it’s pretty cool to have followers from places like Singapore, the Czech Republic, and Egypt as well.

Looking at the “Referrer’s” statistics was pretty fun too.  While a big percentage of my viewers have been referred from the WordPress Reader, I also get a lot of hits from the Google, Bing, and Yahoo search engines.  Also, thank you to,, and for sending viewers my way.  And finally, to my top three fellow blogger referrers here on WordPress…ddjennifer, submissy, and collaredmichael…many of my viewers have found their way to my blog via your blogs…so a big thank you to you!

It’s been a wild ride my friends…here is to another year in blog-o-sphere!  Thank you for being you and for taking the time to visit my blog.

Happy reading and writing 🙂

Love, nora

P.S. And, I am self-nominating myself as the Queen of posting sexy, female, bare-bottom images…is there anything as delectable as all that curvy, feminine skin? Thanks for sticking with me 🙂

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Sizzlin’ Saturdays- Sexy Writing Prompts

Hello all!

Welcome back to Sizzlin’ Saturdays…Week #3! Hope you will participate and reveal some of your sexy secrets!  If you’d like to play, I hope you’ll use the Sizzlin’ Saturdays clip art and leave me a comment here letting me know to check out your blog.

Let’s make it hot! Sizzle sizzle!

Love, nora

Sizzlin’ Saturdays Weekly Writing Prompt- Week # 3

  1. Where is the most arousing/sensitive area on your body?
  2. What is your preferred style for pubic hair and why?
  3. What is one sexual/sensual act that you feel quite confident doing for your partner?
Posted in Uncategorized

Mystery Blogger Award- Nominations!

I want to say a big thank you to Pelgris at Poetry, Pain, Storytime and Introspection for Nominating me for this award!!! I am surely undeserving of this attention, but greatly appreciative as well!  Thank you, Pelgris…your readership means the world!

This award was Created by Okoto Enigma to highlight blogs that may be less well known.


  • Put the award logo/image on your blog.
  • List the rules.
  • Thank whoever nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
  • Mention the creator of the award and provide a link as well.
  • Tell your readers 3 things about yourself.
  • Answer the questions you were asked.
  • You have to nominate 10 people.
  • Notify your nominees by commenting on their blog.
  • Ask your nominees any five questions of your choice, with one weird or funny question.


Here it goes!

Three things about myself:

  1. I am strangely self-confident & suffer low self-esteem at the same time.  This stems largely from the recent development of rosacea on my face.  If you’ve never heard of it or don’t know anyone who suffers from it, it is a cruel, cruel mistress….
  2. I am the friend who is always talking about sex at parties…making inappropriate references to things like “hard limits”, etc….all a part of my charm 🙂
  3. Like many in my age group, I don’t understand the generation behind me.  The lack of self-responsibility in this new world is seriously scary…


On to nominations!!! 

While I love showing recognition to my favorite blogging friends, I also despise this sort of thing because it inevitably leaves someone out.  If you are reading my blog, please know that even if your name doesn’t appear here…I greatly appreciate your readership!






Ms. Dixie Wrecked





My responses to the questions posed by Pelgris:

  • If a song could be your theme song, in what genre of music would that song be from?

I enjoy country music….not the kind about my wife died, my dog died, I lost my job….but more the upbeat, fun country music.  I like upbeat & fun!!!

  • What part does food play in your life?

We have to eat to live!  I love food.  I wish I loved it less!

  • What factors stop you from writing and why?

Just being busy mostly.  I do occasionally experience the emotional block where I just can’t get anything on paper worth saying…

  • Is it Nobler to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune?

I have no idea how to answer this…

  • How pretentious do you consider someone who slings Shakespeare around?

I would consider that the mark of an educated mind! And, an educated mind is sexy as hell!


A few questions of my own to those I have nominated:

  1. What would you say is your most endearing quality?
  2. What is something about yourself you’d like to change/improve?
  3. If your house was burning down and you only had time to grab one material possession (let’s assume your entire family & pets are already safely out), what would you save?
  4. What is something that makes you feel nostalgic?
  5. Favorite dessert?
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Sizzlin’ Saturdays- Let’s talk about sex baby!

Hello all!  Welcome back to Sizzlin’ Saturdays…week #2! I hope you will participate and reveal some of your sexy secrets. Please feel free to steal the Sizzlin’ Saturday clip art and the prompt and post to your own blog, along with your responses.  Oh, and leave me a comment here letting me know that you are participating so I will know to go and check out your blog 🙂

I look forward to reading your responses!

Happy reading and writing 🙂

Love, nora

Sizzlin’ Saturdays Weekly Writing Prompt- Week 2

  1. What is a sure-fire way for your partner to get you in “the mood”.
  2. Where is the most unusual or kinkiest place you have ever fooled around/had sex?
  3. Describe the most embarrassing moment you’ve had in the sack 🙂