I typically try (try being the key word) to keep my blog light- stimulating, I hope- but light. However, we all have those days where the tidal wave of life sweeps over us and threatens to drag us out into murky waters. I have been having a few of those days recently.
I had a bit of a chuckle when I read this prompt. How do I know that I am submissive? Well, to be honest, I am not naturally submissive, quite the opposite and I know that. However, I knew that I had the potential to be submissive as I believe that as humans, our greatest power lies in our control over our minds.
Learning submission has been greatly challenging for me but also greatly rewarding in many ways. My husband is the only person that I truly submit to, and he expects my submission both in and out of the bedroom, 24/7. As a couple, D/s is fairly new to us, but we have found that both of us are much happier in more traditional male and female roles.
While I do not consider labels to be all that important, as they fail to ever be all-encompassing, it is inevitable that labels are used in our human quest to describe ourselves and our experiences. My most important label is the one my husband gave me 14 years ago…wife. I am my husband’s wife, and this is a label I plan to keep for life.
After reading an article titled “5 Ways to Express Gratitude to Your Dominant” by lunaKM, I decided that I want to put great focus on gratitude over the next week. While being submissive certainly has its challenges and it requires a lot of work, so does being a Dominant.
Last night was hot in more ways than just the weather outside! Little did I know that the big O which Daddy had promised me would include a very intense scene and a frosty new experience, much to my delight. My husband, who has been reveling in his new-found dominance, began by texting me with instructions to be kneeling by the front door when he returned home from work.
At the start of Spring I was tempted, as always, to go absolutely crazy buying up plants at the nursery. I greatly enjoy both my exotic variety of houseplants as well as tending to a great variety of trees and plants in our back yard. While Daddy loves to indulge me, one day, he told me he was creating a new rule about me buying plants. The rule was this: for each dollar that I spent on plants, I would receive one smack of the paddle from him.
I really appreciate this prompt as my Daddy is a stickler for manners! This is something that I didn’t really recognize in him until we began to incorporate domestic discipline (DD) into our lifestyle.
Yesterday, I set out on a quest to find a new set of writing prompts that would focus my thoughts and writing on submission. One of the sites I came across is hosted by lunaKM. The author provides a set of journal prompts intended to “help mental blocks and tickle your submissive thoughts”.
Daddy has given me some pretty fantastic gifts over the years, but none probably quite as unique (or sexy) as the lockable dresser he installed in our walk-in closet to display our sex toys!
Finding Strength in my Submission 