30 Days of Submission- Day 7

30 Days of Submission, Day 7

Prompt: Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? How do you feel about it?

Discipline and punishments are what drew me to this lifestyle.  For as long as I can remember, spankings were an integral part of my sexual fantasies, but not just the spankings themselves.  The idea that a strong man would impose his will on me, make me obey him, and follow through with a painful, punishment spanking if I misbehaved…well, that has always been my ultimate fantasy.

Now, my husband and I have incorporated Domestic Discipline (DD) as well as Dominance and submission (D/s) into our marriage.  Fantasy greatly varies from reality, as I am finding out.  The reality is, discipline spankings hurt and when I am getting one, all I want is for it to stop.  However, despite not actually liking the spankings, I still very much crave my husband having authority over me and the right to discipline me when I step out of line.  I love the way that this makes me feel toward him…submissive, feminine, little, sexy…

So, in answer to this prompt, yes, I accept and even expect discipline and punishments as part of my submission.  My husband and I have created rules and protocols to be followed, and if I break a rule, disobey him, or disrespect him, I can expect to be punished.  Sometimes, I am punished with a spanking.  However; my husband has many punishments in his arsenal, such as: corner time, mouth soaping, writing lines, hand rulering, figging, grounding, restrictions (including orgasming), anal discipline/humiliation, and bondage.  If I am to be punished, I must record my transgression as well as my punishment in my Discipline Journal.  On Sundays, my husband reviews my Discipline Journal during our discussion of my behavior that week, and prior to my maintenance spanking.  This helps to remind both of us what happened during the week.  If I did not earn any punishments throughout the week, Daddy has been rewarding me with a foot massage.  I earned a foot massage a few weeks ago and it was heavenly (thank you, Daddy!) 🙂

On a side note, for those who follow my blog regularly…Daddy and I are in a good place now.  We had many conversations about things over the last several days, figured out what was going on with both of us, and talked about the benefits of DD and D/s in our marriage.  We are both committed to making this a permanent part of our lifestyle and really appreciate all the advice we were given.  So…thank you!  Your words made a difference in our world.

Thank you for stopping by!

Happy writing 🙂

~ nora

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  1. Probably against the rules, but, a foot massage from me most nights of you wanted it. You are giving your body heart and soul to me, that needs to be rewarded.

    Glad you talk things out and have clears the air

    Love reading anything you post 😘😉😉

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        1. That really is the sweetest thing to say, thank you! I enjoy writing about new experiences, especially sexy ones, and it there is anyone out there enjoying that or learning something from it…well, that is probably the nicest compliment that you could give me. Thank you 🙂

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  2. The essential confusion of really not liking the spanking while it’s happening (yes, spankings hurt) yet craving it, is what people not in the lifestyle don’t get. I compare it to running. Many folk love the easy jog around the lake on a cool morning but can’t understand how someone could punish themselves through a marathon (or half) suffering black toenails, bloody nipples, shin splints and all that madness. But those who do it-and I sleep with one-swear by it as a way to keep them centered and “purposed”.

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    1. Great analogy, HotBottoms! I think you make an excellent point about it being difficult to understand unless you have experienced. All I know is…I need spankings! They hurt like hell, but do so much good for me emotionally (and sexually at times too!) 🙂

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  3. Wrote a reply and my phone malfunctioned so I had to restart it and the comment disappeared 😤##€}€}%%£{£$&”$),.. there I feel better now!
    Glad you’re back on stable ground! Btw, I very much understand your love/hate relationship with punishment! I feel the same! Have a wonderful day Nora!!

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