Recently, blogger Wicked Daddy wrote about incorporating a mantra into one’s D/s dynamic. Wicked Daddy discussed how to write an effective mantra and the benefits of having the submissive recite the mantra, even when away from the Dominant. While reading this piece, I felt something stir within me and I immediately emailed the link to the article to my Daddy. Daddy has given me permission to provide him with ideas, however; ultimately he decides when/if we incorporate something new. In this case, Daddy also liked the idea of incorporating a mantra into our dynamic.
Daddy always puts his own spin on things, which I love, so just about every time we come together (for example, when he gets home from work), he says the following:
Daddy: Who am I?
nora: You are my Husband and my Daddy.
Daddy: And who are you?
nora: I am Daddy’s beautiful, obedient baby girl.
I cannot express how much I love this simple exchange! My mantra, “I am Daddy’s beautiful, obedient baby girl” is one that I repeat in my head often and it reinforces in my mind who I am and what my role is within our dynamic. I find it comforting, soothing, reassuring…and just repeating it in my head puts me firmly in my submissive mindset.
Thank you for my mantra, Daddy! I hope it pleases you to think of your baby girl repeating your words in her head throughout the day. I am yours, always.
Happy writing, all 🙂