A few weeks ago, Daddy and I re-committed ourselves to our domestic discipline lifestyle. We both felt that we had become very infatuated with D/s, sexual exploration, rituals, etc., and that the purpose of why we were changing our relationship climate was getting lost in the excitement.
Recently, I began reading a book titled, “The Surrendered Wife: A Practical Guide to Finding Intimacy, Passion, and Peace with a Man” written by Laura Doyle. To preface my review of the topics found within this book, let me say that I was looking for material which would help me change how I think about my husband and our marriage in order to change my behavior toward my husband.
Only one more night without Daddy! I can’t wait to be in his arms again. This morning, he took full advantage of the Wunderlist app that we both downloaded to our phones. If you haven’t tried it yet, it is a fantastic D/s tool as your Dominant can load activities for you throughout the day and will be notified when you have completed your “tasks”.
While I have been trying to make the best out of this week, it has been a bit tough with Daddy away for work. He will be back on Friday evening and I am counting the minutes down!
This past weekend, Daddy surprised me with a 2-night trip into the city! We had a fantastic time and stayed in a beautiful room with a view. The trip was relaxing, rejuvenating, and EXCITING. Once I knew our travel plans, I decided that I wanted to do something that would be sexually exciting for Daddy.
Lately, Daddy and I have really gotten caught up in our D/s dynamic…rituals, sexual submission, trying new things at a rapid pace, etc. While exploring ourselves sexually has been incredible (emphasize the incredible part), we have really gotten away from the original reason that Daddy and I embarked on this journey in the first place. That reason was to change our marriage for the better…
Today is the first day in months where Daddy and I had absolutely nothing that had to get done, nor did we have anywhere we needed or wanted to be, other than at home. We’ve been experiencing a bit of a heat wave here, so we’ve been tucked away all day at home, fully enjoying and appreciating our air conditioner. Per our new norm, I woke up wearing nothing by my leather cuffs which Daddy affixed to my wrists the night before.
Recently, blogger Wicked Daddy wrote about incorporating a mantra into one’s D/s dynamic. Wicked Daddy discussed how to write an effective mantra and the benefits of having the submissive recite the mantra, even when away from the Dominant. While reading this piece, I felt something stir within me and I immediately emailed the link to the article to my Daddy.
I woke up that morning, already tingling with nervous anticipation. The previous day, Daddy and I had visited a sex shop and bought some new toys…including an under-your-mattress restraint system, which could effectively tie this little girl down, spread-eagle, and completely vulnerable to Daddy’s advances.