Hello fellow bloggers! I have decided to partake in the 30 Days of D/s, which I will utilize as a writing exercise, presented by John Brownstone and Kayla Lords at Loving BDSM. As suggested by the title, this free activity explores topics surrounding D/s relationships. I know that there are many of us in this particular circle of writers who are engaged in this writing activity at the moment, so bear with me. I think that this will be a useful endeavor in further exploring this new lifestyle that Daddy and I have set out on. As always, thank you for reading!
Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 28
Prompt: D/s is a power exchange relationship. It’s also a kink, but it’s not the only kink out there. In your D/s relationship, in order to keep it healthy and vibrant, you’ve both got to grow – together. Part of this might be in exploring your kinks together. Today, if you’re in a relationship, it may be time to talk about kinks you’d both like to try but haven’t yet. Find what aligns or what you both find interesting and start exploring. If you’re single, make a list of the kinky things you’d like to try with a partner.
I’ve been aware of my kinky preferences since I was in my early teens. Seeing the bare bottom of a female being spanked has always turned me on. I remember that even younger than that, I would draw cartoons of spankings and I would read and re-read parts of books in which a spanking took place. So, soon after I met my future husband, I told him that I fantasized about spanking. He gladly took me over his knee and gave me what would be one of the first of many spankings to come. But, back then, Daddy gave me sexy spankings. That’s not the case anymore since we implemented domestic discipline into our marriage. While I still love fantasizing about spankings…actually getting them is not so fun.
Over the last six months, Daddy and I have begun to explore other kinky activities. We’ve used nipple clamps, various vibrators and dildos, and anal toys. He’s restrained me at times using cuffs and/or the spreader bar. We’ve experimented with a few scenes and tried things that are a little more volatile, like when Daddy fucked my face with his cock. It has all been very sexually stimulating and satisfying. But most of this play has centered around my desire to explore new kink and Daddy has happily obliged.
When I ask Daddy about his sexual fantasies, it centers around one particular activity…the threesome. Just Daddy, me, and another willing female who will be our little sex kitten. However, Daddy and I decided long ago that we did not want to actually include another female into our sex life. We have seen two other couples decide to experiment with this, the results of that decision, and decided that it just wasn’t worth the risk to our marriage, despite how fun it would probably be. But, I really want to give Daddy his fantasy so it is something that I bring up from time to time and he still firmly tells me no. What he does allow me to do is to whisper his fantasies in his ear while we are making love. While riding or stroking his thick shaft I’ll paint a picture for him in his mind of two naughty girls face down on the bed, one being pummeled by his hard cock while he finger fucks the other. Or, me being tied up while he sucks on my nipple and plays with my clit, while she kneels before him sucking him off. He LOVES those stories. But still, I can’t help but want to give him the real thing.
To date, this is the only fantasy I have been able to wriggle out of Daddy, but I know he must have others. I am hoping tonight to propose that we do just what this prompt suggests and sit down together and make a list of kinks or fantasies we’d each like to explore. What could be more fun than that?
I guess that was a silly question. Going down the list and actually doing each of the kinky activities we come up with would definitely be more fun!
Happy writing 🙂