Reflecting on 30 Days of D/s- Day 18

Hello fellow bloggers! I have decided to partake in the 30 Days of D/s, which I will utilize as a writing exercise, presented by John Brownstone and Kayla Lords at Loving BDSM.  As suggested by the title, this free activity explores topics surrounding D/s relationships.  I know that there are many of us in this particular circle of writers who are engaged in this writing activity at the moment, so bear with me.  I think that this will be a useful endeavor in further exploring this new lifestyle that Daddy and I have set out on.  As always, thank you for reading!

~nora

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 18

Prompt: Have you ever considered D/s without a sexual component? Would you be interested in something like it? How important is sex to your current or future D/s relationship? These are just a few things to think about if the concept is new to you

The only way to begin to address this prompt is with a very eloquent LOL (as in, laugh out loud) and a great big heck NO!!! I absolutely do not want a D/s dynamic without a sexual component.  With that said, I realize these prompts are for individuals who are at various stages in their lives…some who are single, some who have a partner or two, and some who are monogamous like Daddy and I, etc.  As Daddy and I walk hand in hand farther and farther down this winding path of D/s, our sex life just keeps getting better and better.  Sex is a very important aspect to our marriage for a variety of reasons…it satisfies basic human need, it provides a forum for physical intimacy, it allows us to give the gift of pleasure to one another, and it is just plain fun!  Sex as a part of our new D/s dynamic has been incredible… it provides another opportunity for Daddy to show me who’s boss, it allows us to explore new things we’d never considered in a safe way, and it just makes everything that much hotter in the bedroom (and the living room, and the kitchen, and the garage…).

The idea of having a D/s dynamic with another individual, where it is based solely on the power exchange is interesting to me.  Not as in something I am interested in, but the idea is intriguing.  This discussion prompt prompted me to visit the WordPress page of StrictMotivaton4u this morning, as I had seen his posts in my feed many times, and I read about the services which he offers to individuals who desire to work on various aspects of their life with a Dom for hire.  Talk about a neat career! I won’t pretend to know all what is entailed with his services, please visit his page for yourself, but I imagine that this is one scenario where a dominant and submissive may come together without the sexual component.  I wish I had more to say on the subject, but that’s about it.  Short and sweet this morning.

Happy writing 🙂

~ nora