I felt a bit of nostalgia reading this discussion prompt this morning as I remembered back to when Daddy and I first met, long ago. One of the first times we were intimate, I shyly told him that I liked being spanked and he very obligingly turned me over his knee to spank my thong-clad backside.
Daddy has worked really hard to teach me how to be a good girl for him. He is very consistent and very clear about his expectations for my behavior. Yesterday, I failed him miserably. I demonstrated a lack of trust in him and when he tried to remind me to behave, I directly disobeyed him.
As you know, I love all things spanking...this is one of my favorite memes (even though spanking isn't actually depicted). Do you have a favorite? Please feel free to share! Daddy...thank you for training me 🙂 Love, nora
When Daddy entered the living room, he was greeted by the sight of three naughty young ladies, each in their respective corner. In his right hand he held the dreaded oak paddle, which he would soon use to ensure that none of these young ladies sat comfortably for the next few days. He took an armless chair from the dining room table and placed it in the center of the room.
Consent is of the upmost importance in all relationships, as well as in D/s dynamics. To provide consent, means that an individual expresses approval or agreement regarding the act in question. As I move forward in my education about dominance and submission, I am learning that there are many different kinds of D/s lifestyles but that they all begin with the submissive providing consent to his/her dominant regarding the lifestyle that has been chosen.
Daddy and I do not have a safe word. We made this decision together at the start of our D/s relationship five months ago as we both felt that it was important for Daddy to have the ultimate control over my body.
This is an interesting topic to me and one that I will openly admit, Daddy and I have not discussed much (though I am anxious to now!). When I consider why this is, I feel that Daddy and I know each other so well we didn’t feel the need to talk about hard and soft limits. Over the years, we have explored many different facets of our sexuality and we both have a pretty good understanding of what the other enjoys.
Prior to the beginning of our D/s lifestyle, I did not handle my emotions well. I did not know this then and in fact, I probably would have told you that I was quite proficient in handling emotions. Looking back, I understand that I only handled positive emotions well…emotions such as anger, jealousy, and fear were handled very poorly and at a great cost to my husband.
When you have been with someone for a long time, like I have been with Daddy, you most likely have learned the nuances of their particular communication style, verbally and non-verbally. My Daddy can walk into a room and easily read my mood by what my nonverbal behaviors are saying to him…my posture, my facial expressions, the look in my eyes, etc.
The greatest benefit my husband and I have enjoyed from engaging in the D/s lifestyle is the reduction of conflict in our marriage and new tools to handle conflict when it (inevitably) occurs. Prior to D/s, we typically did not handle conflict well.
Finding Strength in my Submission 